Need a vote of confidence TheDude: Okay, so today should be nothing but a good day for me. I have a date tonight with a beautiful woman who is someone who I've gotten to know quite well over the years and has proven to be an amazing person.
I should be happy and excited right???
For whatever reason, who knows why, all I can think about is my stbxw. I made the mistake of looking at some old pictures today and that started a whole whirlwind of emotion.
I know that I don't want her back, well... I should say that I know it wouldn't be healthy for me to have her back and that is enough not to pursue it.
I deserve better than her and I know it.... But why can't I get her off my mind right before my date???
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Re: Need a vote of confidence snkpack: Maybe its too soon.
Re: Need a vote of confidence qmambo: what was the story with your relationship with your ex? Sorry i dont know anything about it but it could be too soon, you looked atr those photos on the day you had a date for a reason, sound slike you aint ready
Re: Need a vote of confidence TheDude: We've been seperated for 5 months after she was unfaithful. I really like this new woman. So this may be a unanswerable question... How do you know when you're ready?
Re: Need a vote of confidence snkpack: [quote author=TheDude link=topic=41094.msg459512#msg459512 date=1171049560">
We've been seperated for 5 months after she was unfaithful. I really like this new woman. So this may be a unanswerable question... How do you know when you're ready?
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Hmmmm. Good question. I think you're just nervous. It can't be helped you know. It probably doesn't mean anything.
I can be more indecisive if you'd like.
You might want to repost this in the dating board a few notches down. Might get a better response!
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