Re: Hyper Sensitivity? JimB: After 3 1/2 years in a very non-clingy relationship, I still get this from time to time. I'm legitimately busy with something, and get 3 messages (and probably a text or two) within about 20 mins. First is "Hi - call me." Second is "Can you please call me." Third is (growing hysteria in voice) "Can you call me - PLEASE." When I do call, it's not really about much of anything, except "Why didn't you call?"
Seems to happen about once a month, at roughly the same time. Hmmm....
Re: Hyper Sensitivity? Lumpy: [quote author=JimB link=topic=41099.msg459667#msg459667 date=1171057912">
After 3 1/2 years in a very non-clingy relationship, I still get this from time to time. I'm legitimately busy with something, and get 3 messages (and probably a text or two) within about 20 mins. First is "Hi - call me." Second is "Can you please call me." Third is (growing hysteria in voice) "Can you call me - PLEASE." When I do call, it's not really about much of anything, except "Why didn't you call?"
Seems to happen about once a month, at roughly the same time. Hmmm....
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Re: Hyper Sensitivity? superwife: I can relate to your girlfriend. I get like that every once in a while (hopefully not that much). I try not to let it show, for this very reason. Of course I'm going say that it is somewhat normal (heck, b/c I do it :D). e all have some sort of insecurities. It's when it consumes your life that you need to start worrying.
I agree with the rest, that you need to talk to her. Let her express why she is feeling this way. You know, she may have a past history of being treated like crap by her previous relationships, and just needs a little more reassurance.
Re: Hyper Sensitivity? Zipsfb: So I talked to her and everything is okay. I told her if I ever did have an issue I wouldn't ignore her... like I told her the previous times. I tried to stay humorous about it, because I didn't want it to be blown out of proportion. I also didn't act like it was a big deal, other than saying "I'm sorry I worried you".
Thanks for all of the advice! You all helped a lot!
Re: Hyper Sensitivity? Zipsfb: So last night I got back from a long day at work, after not getting much sleep the night before, and fell asleep around 10ish... She called me at 1030 and obviously I didn't pick up. Then she texted, and then texted again the next morning a few times while I was still sleeping. The final text was pretty ackward, but I just replied telling her to not worry because I was just tired and fell asleep and am not ignoring her. She hasn't responded back yet.
So? What's the deal? I do NOT get this kind of sensitivity... help?
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