Re: Hyper Sensitivity? pluscachange: [quote author=wizer_now link=topic=41099.msg459567#msg459567 date=1171052641">
[quote author=Snkpack link=topic=41099.msg459562#msg459562 date=1171052483">
You never respond to my pms anymore. :-\
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Snkpack, I would respond to your PMs.
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Don't fall for her trickery. They're really nothing more than AmWay recruitment messages. But like vampires, she can't send them to you until you invite them.
Run! :)
Re: Hyper Sensitivity? Zipsfb: Wow, thanks for the quick responses!
[quote author=Snkpack link=topic=41099.msg459562#msg459562 date=1171052483">
You never respond to my pms anymore. :-\
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HAHA! I'm sorry but I just think its better if we see other people for now...
[quote author=Bea link=topic=41099.msg459570#msg459570 date=1171052697">
If she likes you, and she's used to hear from you during the day, then she was probably wondering why you were idle. If she's dealing with insecurity issues (like most women), she probably was wondering if you were idle because of something she did.
I don't think it's bad. Don't try to read too much into people's actions or you will go nuts. If you like this girl, go with the flow and see her for what she is: a human being, just like you. We girls aren't perfect. :)
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I know, I know... just kind of bothersome. She's a supercool person every other time, but so far this has happened like 3 times... and each time I have to tell her "Don't worry! If I did have an issue I wouldn't hesitate to tell you". I'm just really easy going and I guess figure other people will be that way too.
[quote author=Plucky link=topic=41099.msg459565#msg459565 date=1171052600">
Sounds like she's got some serious issues involving her self-esteem. Hopefully, she'll ease up and become more comfortable in time.
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But she's so confident otherwise... Maybe she's just vulnerable every once in a while? I hope she eases up too though...
Re: Hyper Sensitivity? Temporary: [quote"> They don't need to be "serious." I don't know anyone who has a perfect self-esteem. Or maybe, but they come across as arrogant. LOL[/quote">
JC on skates, I can't say anything around here anymore.
Ok, maybe she just has normal insecurity. Whatever.
Re: Hyper Sensitivity? Magalucia: [quote author=Zip link=topic=41099.msg459587#msg459587 date=1171053028">
Wow, thanks for the quick responses!
[quote author=Snkpack link=topic=41099.msg459562#msg459562 date=1171052483">
You never respond to my pms anymore. :-\
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HAHA! I'm sorry but I just think its better if we see other people for now...
[quote author=Bea link=topic=41099.msg459570#msg459570 date=1171052697">
If she likes you, and she's used to hear from you during the day, then she was probably wondering why you were idle. If she's dealing with insecurity issues (like most women), she probably was wondering if you were idle because of something she did.
I don't think it's bad. Don't try to read too much into people's actions or you will go nuts. If you like this girl, go with the flow and see her for what she is: a human being, just like you. We girls aren't perfect. :)
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I know, I know... just kind of bothersome. She's a supercool person every other time, but so far this has happened like 3 times... and each time I have to tell her "Don't worry! If I did have an issue I wouldn't hesitate to tell you". I'm just really easy going and I guess figure other people will be that way too.
[quote author=Plucky link=topic=41099.msg459565#msg459565 date=1171052600">
Sounds like she's got some serious issues involving her self-esteem. Hopefully, she'll ease up and become more comfortable in time.
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But she's so confident otherwise... Maybe she's just vulnerable every once in a while? I hope she eases up too though...
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3 times in two weeks seems like a tiny red flag to me. I would suggest you sit her down and let her know that if something were bothering you, you would be direct and tell her about it. Tell her that is just the kind of guy you are and she does not have to worry about trying to guess about whether something may be wrong. Hopefully, this will ease her mind. If it does not and this continues, consider the flag not so tiny.
Re: Hyper Sensitivity? YellowJacket: I agree with Bea and Crushed -- I'd give it a bit of time and see if she doesn't get more comfortable once your relationship is on stronger ground. I'd definitely talk about it with her like Magalucia said. Hopefully a good middle ground can be reached.
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