When They've Moved On browneyedgurl: The first glimpse of their new life, when you see photos of him with another girl, when he goes on about how much he loves her. I know it's too soon. Everyone in our old circle of friends thinks he's crazy and it's also too soon. Still it hurts like someone kicked me in the chest today.
I hope your life is good now dude.
Re: When They've Moved On qmambo: I dont believe people can just go from loving someone to loing someone new just like that - either he had left you mentally a long time ago (which is prob true and dont shoot me for sayin this but i think its more of a guy thing to do than a girl thing as it takes logic to do that not emotion and men prefer logic) or he is a serious rebounder (which could be true also) but i dont know your story - what happened?????
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I dont believe people can just go from loving someone to loing someone new just like that - either he had left you mentally a long time ago (which is prob true and dont shoot me for sayin this but i think its more of a guy thing to do than a girl thing as it takes logic to do that not emotion and men prefer logic) or he is a serious rebounder (which could be true also) but i dont know your story - what happened?????
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There's no need to go into the long story. I think you hit the nail perfectly on the head by saying it was a choice of logic. Sadly, I had an inkling the guy wouldn't work out because he seemed to need a lot of female cheerleaders in his life. He was very insecure. He was gone from us mentally a long time ago. I just can't quite understand how a man would use logic to rule in a situation where he claims to be in love. it's almost hypocritical.
Ah well. Live and learn... to quote a silly movie... my heart will go on.
Re: When They've Moved On defuzer: I know how you feel. Where I used to work, I sometimes had to go by my ex’s office. One day I was over there and saw here desk and on it was a picture of her with her new victim. I was kind of sad because after over six years of being together, I was replaced after a very short period of time. Even after you move on, it still hurts sometimes.
Re: When They've Moved On Percy123: The worst kinda pain.....I found out same and was tore up, but come to find out all is not perfect. You see the picture and your brain fills in the romance and happpiness and you are hurt that they can move on.....Wrong Wrong Wrong.....I come to find out ex is miserable, trapped and crumbling. Not that that is a great thing but no one walks away from this un hurt. No one. We just may not show our wounds the same. Mine covered the wounds with getting married right away. I crawled under a bush to heal. Don't empower your ex to hurt you because the reality of things can and probably is quite different.
Mine was a messed up person. I saw the picture and thought she mustta really worked on herself, matured and is now a loving whole person. She probaly kisses him on the cheek everynight and they laugh until they drift off asleep....(sound familair?) Check that BS at the door please......As the mighty DR phil says: "the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior" and he is damn right. People don't change unless major crap occurs and your ex and mine are the same people, acting the same way and someone else gets to learn what we already know.......Take solice in this and know it is true.
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