Re: When They've Moved On Percy123: Bummer Clarice. Sorry for your experience...I guess this happens to a lot of people. After I found out, I googled quite a bit on re-bounds and life usaully is not good for them. Maybe that helps. My ex married the rebound and is paying big now. Maybe you will be as lucky.
You are very cute in that picture and I agree he would have to look long and hard to find someone similar....
I come to find out my replacement has assumed many aspects and details of my previous life, I am sure at the urging of my ex....I am not mad. I see it as proof of the deep wounding and suffering she is going through and how she is attempting to put the broken pieces back...Kinda sad. They didn't make 2 like me...I am a prototype never intended for mass production! I now see it as I emerged the better person.
Re: When They've Moved On defuzer: [quote"> Mine was a messed up person.[/quote">
I believe mine was too. She was in a “serious” relationship and even living with this guy only four months after our divorce was final. I don’t think she is (was) capable of being alone, which is one of the reasons why our marriage ended.
[quote"> I am told this will all pass eventually. I am trusting in that. [/quote">
It will, but it just takes time. I am going on two years divorced and still have thoughts of her.
[quote"> I am also trusting there will eventually be justice.
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This might happen, but you may not be around to see it. I wouldn’t worry about it though, it will just eat you up being angry and hoping for justice.
Re: When They've Moved On MEP2006: Mine replaced me with a new girl he thought was a sure bet (well, most of the girls he pursues are sure bets because he's so good looking and charming and he casts a pretty devastating spell early on) and then he treated me like the stuff stuck to the bottom of his shoe. He told me to never contact him again, and that he needed to "protect his family" from me -- umm? Anyway. The situation kind of backfired on him. His new girl saw what a total sociopath he was and told him hell no, despite all his pleading and tears and "I'm a changed man" crap, so he came back to me. It was a delight to tell him no way. And now that I have that handy little Dr. Phil quote in my mental filing cabinet, I have a way of articulating why getting back together with him would be the most destructive path for me to take.
And just for the record, the girl he dumped me for is a new friend of mine now, and we've spent a lot of hours talking about what a manipulative flake this guy is.
Re: When They've Moved On Beachchick: Wow, this is the best thread I have read in a long time....
All of you have great experiences (sad, I understand) but very sincere...
Although I have moved on from my husband, I was dating someone and broke up with him 4 months ago. He recently called to tell me he is a mess, and that his girl problems are getting to him. I told him to please note contact me anymore (which he did 5 more times disregarding my request to leave me alone) . I broke up with him because he was selfish in every way possible. Financially, sexually, mentally, and especially in being a good friend. The more I gave, the more he took. It was toxic, so I kicked his ass to the curb.
I finally caved, and answered him, and told him he needed help, and to keep his chick stories to himself. I wasn't built like that, and when I give my heart to someone, I can't "rebound" as fast as he. I haven't heard from him for a week, which is REALLY good. Maybe he got the hint...
I have to admit though it was very painful to know that I was replaced...and he moved on.
He was my FIRST relationship since my husband and I split up...
Thank you all for sharing...
Re: When They've Moved On defuzer: [quote"> He recently called to tell me he is a mess, and that his girl problems are getting to him. [/quote">
I don’t understand how these people think that talking about their relationship problems with us is acceptable, after we are no longer with them. My ex wanted to be “friends” after we divorced and said she couldn’t understand why I couldn’t do it. Umm, maybe because friends don’t screw each other over.
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