Re: HELP trapped: QMO unplug your phones....dont do it! He knows how you feel. He sees what a wreck you are.
So sorry hun...I know its pure hell.
DONT DO IT PUMPKIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OOOOOOOhugsOOOOOOO
Re: HELP ezekiel: Only call if your heart requires you to do so, but I don't know what you are calling for. I would say if he cares enough, he would call you. But then again, what is the problem?
Re: HELP Whirlpool: [quote author=illuminati link=topic=41504.msg465926#msg465926 date=1171959973">
Only call if your heart requires you to do so
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I must respectfully disagree. The problem here is thinking with your heart instead of your head. All of our hearts need to tell this other person how much we love them and how much they hurt us, it is our head that works to keep us from acting on the heart. :)
Re: HELP ezekiel: Ok, I follow now. Well I can agree and disagree. Sometimes your head is protecting you from further harm, which can be needed. And sometimes, your head will get in the way of following your heart. My GF was following her head when she was thinking of moving, well eventually she followed her heart and stayed. So I guess, I would go with your gut, call if you need to and feel that it may make a difference, even if it is only helpful to you. But at the same time, be prepared for an outcome that may not be what you wanted; considering you are already hurt, it is easy to fall down even harder now.
There was a quote I heard a while back which reminds me of putting your heart on the line, it went something like "Behold the turtle, only makes progress when its sticking its head out".
Re: HELP qmambo: Guys
thanks and i didnt call instead i drank a bottle of wine and listened to my ipod and fell asleep, i had a bad sleep again and im not good this morning - the urge to call him has subsided and the reality of him not wanting me for last few months and me not knowing it is starting to sink in (i think). he doesnt want me or he would be here, he wouldnt have put me through this and i wouldnt be alone. last night i felt that it was all my fault but it can never be all my fault it can only be 50% my fault right!
If he ever wants to come back he will be the one doing it on his own not me begging - i wont do it and if he doesnt want me anymore then i dont want him do i - i deserve much better!
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