Re: Does anyone else...? defuzer: [quote"> Maybe we form a pair-bond with certain people and this bond is never broken [/quote">
You know, I would be inclined to believe this. Even after all the pain that was caused because of her, I still about her every now and again. I don’t want her back, not by a long shot. Just odd she is still there.
I will be as safe as possible. Been here three months now. Must say it’s a great place, lol
Re: Does anyone else...? Percy123: I sit here single, long after the dust settles and think, maybe some of us mate for life, although we may have been paired with someone who doesn't. Those couples married till death are the lucky one who found another like themselves. We are the ones who found the wrong one. I will always be married to my wife in a way. I kinda found a place in my mind to cherish her and the memories in a healthy way. I try to see things as passing through my life and keeping the good I get from these brief moments.
Re: Does anyone else...? ctrlaltdelete: [quote author=defuzer link=topic=41509.msg465945#msg465945 date=1171971888">
Does anyone else still think about their ex even though they are relatively happy? It’s been almost two years since my divorce was final and lately I have been thinking more about my ex, and she has even been in my dreams as well. It really kind of angers me that I still waste any time at all thinking about her. I have dated and been dating someone for quite a while that I am happy with, but thoughts of my ex still linger in the back of my mind. I feel I am at a good point in my life (aside from being in Iraq) but I just don’t understand why I still think about her. Anyone else find themselves doing the same?
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On the rare occasion that the ex crosses my mind, it's usually relief that I feel. I think "wow, I'm so glad I don't have to worry about my finances anymore because of that idiot" and "wow, I'm so glad I don't have to worry about who he's sleeping with tonight" and "wow, I'm so glad I don't have to endure his childishness anymore".
However, the less I think about him, the better I feel. I think I found a new cure for high blood pressure - divorce.
Re: Does anyone else...? Whirlpool: About 16 months later and yes she is still in my head, I moved on with my life and am for the most part happy, but I still feel a piece of me is missing though I am living a whole life.
Re: Does anyone else...? foolmeonce: our brains record everything people. good and bad times. as we get older and have more experiences old memories get filed but not deleted. there is nothing wrong w/ having thoughts of the past. its quite natural. just be careful not to allow them to cloud your mind. you have moved forward and are going to keep on moving forward. look on the brightside , if they are good dreams enjoy the show and when its over remind yourself the real reason you left.
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