Re: Fiance leaves me, with no explanation, except that she's not happy anymore. loveblue: That's a good question. When I started thinking about it, I am not getting anything out of the relationship, except that I'm doing my part to make things work out and to trust her. When started getting serious, she just told me that she placed all her life and trust in my hands, and that's what I've been doing.
I never really thought that I should get something from her whatsoever. I knew she loved me and really felt it. I just believed that in any relationship there should be understanding, patience and unselfishness. However when I needed her, she disappeared. I'm just thinking maybe she's confused and lost again, that everything is too much of a good thing or I don't know.
I wish I can find the strength to fully move on. She may come back without a doubt, but I don't know if I would be willing to take her back.
Re: Fiance leaves me, with no explanation, except that she's not happy anymore. octoberbaby: I don't know if i'd be willing to take her back either. I really think you got taken advantage of, think long and hard before you make any final descisions
Re: Fiance leaves me, with no explanation, except that she's not happy anymore. loveblue: It's weird. I just posted this today and she calls me out of the blue to ask how I was doing and asking stuff about my work, what's been going on and all that. I don't know, I just didn't feel her. I was so cold with her. It's strange, there were so many times in the conversation where both of us just fell silent, as if we were just finding questions to ask. Any advice on this?
Re: Fiance leaves me, with no explanation, except that she's not happy anymore. qmambo: because a massive event has taken place between you two and now there is absolutely no trust its like talking to a stranger - you second guess motives and are forced to look at everything without your usual glasses on, the words take on different meanings now. its all about trust and now there is none. cant undo or go backwards. im struggling today he hasnt phoned niow since sunday and im freaking literally sitting at my desk shaking, and i feel sick and teary and nothing matters anymore and im not wishing he would call cos i know it will be just like your conversation empty and untrusting and it will all be weird.
Re: Fiance leaves me, with no explanation, except that she's not happy anymore. loveblue: A big part of me tells me that she used me, and she's really worthless and doesn't add value to my life. Yet a small part of me tells me that I love her and that I want to give her a chance, . STill, I'm not making any moves. It still hurts and I feel all of you here who have been broken and betrayed.
