Re: Missing Exs Spike: I'm getting better.
Re: Missing Exs Zipsfb: LOL spike...
I was with her 3 years. It ended on good terms... the second time we tried. The first time was awful because she had cheated. I know my experience is really nothing compared to a lot of others on ojar, but it was pretty bad for me.
I guess I have been focusing on the good lately and neglecting the bad (which was why we ended it in the first place). I have been thinking about what I could have done differently and such...
I think its probably healthy and it just shows parts of me are still coming to grips with my first love failing. After thinking extensively today I have realized that a big part of why we broke up was because I would do everything she wanted me to, and was all about her. I feel like it got too easy for her and she probably got bored. Even sex became something she wasn't interested in... probably because I was always willing to do the horizontal tango.
Sucks thinking by trying your best at a relationship you might have killed it...
Re: Missing Exs Spike: If you're happy now, then it's all for the good. If you learned the pain was worth it. Try not to dwell on it, that isn't healthy.
Re: Missing Exs Copperblade: I'm sure it will fade. Just make sure it doesn't damage your current relationship. Other than that, feel what you want to feel.
Re: Missing Exs superwife: i thought this was about ex's who were MIA :D
what i wanna know is, why don't I miss my ex? I have almost no good memories anymore, at least none that are recent. Almost all my memories are bad. sometimes i wonder if i am in some sort of cloud, and it will all catch up with me. i sure as hell hope not.
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