major positive step... m2g4b: well i made a big step yesterday and today!!! we have been seperated for almost 6 months and she has been flip flopping between me and her BF the entire time. I let her back in 3 times only to have her walk all over me again and again. but this time things went a little different. Sunday she called me after little contact for 2 weeks, we have kids so some contact is involved, but anyway, she said she depressed again, and not happy with her BF and that she has been thinking about me alot lately. I wont lie at first i was pretty happy that she was coming around but just about as soon as that feeling hit me it was gone when i started thinking here we go again, and what all she has done to me in the past months. I told her I felt for her but there was nothing I could do to help her, she made her bed and now has to deal with her decisions that she made. last night she came by to pick up one of the kids and she is now being a total witch to me again, I guess me not just falling at her feet made her mad, but anyway, I asked what her problem was? she said she was fine and nothing was the matter, so i just looked at her and told her to her face, that i didnt want her back no matter what, and that I have let go to the point where I am moving on in life and not to call me again when she has or feels her personal problems!!! it felt so good to be able to look her in the eye and tell her that, and I truly meant it, I am done, I gave all I could and want to give.....needless to say she didnt like that and sped off, only to spend the night with her BF last night, LOL.....oh well, that is just the person she has become!!!! I feel good today, and actually feel like life is coming back to me after a long dark road!!!!
Re: major positive step... octoberbaby: That is really really good!!!! I'd keep it up, don't let her do that to you ever again
Re: major positive step... flipflopnomore: CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
That is a huge step for those of us (like me) that have let them go back and forth. Keep it up. You should be proud of yourself.
Re: major positive step... loveblue: Good for you! I'm happy for you and I hope you can stay happy and strong!
Re: major positive step... qmambo: Yay for you!!!!! well done my son! she will get hers! but you are on a healthy road now and its just you and your kids - keep em safe and healthy
