Re: He still affects me wizer_now: My situation is not the same as yours. From what I understand, you work for a large company, and it is not necessary to constantly speak to this one particular person.
In my case, as you well know, I work closely with a small group of people, all day long.
You're not comparing apples here, and I think you're doing it because you want to justify your continued interaction with your ex. And you can do whatever you want, I'm just trying to help you out. Your healing is taking a long time, and every time you talk to this guy you're only hurting yourself more.
Re: He still affects me icwtsmnl: You're assuming that you know how the dynamics of this company work, and my division. But you really have no idea. Granted this is a huge company, but the division work within themselves for the most past and his desk is not far from mine. There are projects we both work on and many meetings that we are both in. I'm not justifying anything.
I know you're trying to help, but you don't know the details or circumstances of the situation here. It's not very different than working in a small office where you see everyone every day.
Re: He still affects me wizer_now: Hey, suit yourself. Talk to your ex as much as you want. Maybe it's good for you. You're right, what do I know?
Re: He still affects me flipflopnomore: OMG when am I not going to care what he does, who he does it with and when he does it? When does he just become a distant bad memory and I say "thank God I got out of that?" I wish that feeling would hurry.
Re: He still affects me qmambo: we are all looking for that, i am constantly in and out of those feelings its an emotional rollercoaster one minute guilt, the next anxiety, the next sadness, the next complete and utter anger - its all part of the healing process it shows you you are human and if you dont go through this you cant move on - you know it - i know it - they know it. there is someone else waiting for you but they cant take you as you are and you cant trust again until youve healed - we will be ok - i promise us
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