Re: I'm the step mother octoberbaby: Long story short she decided she wanted to work as a stripper (god only knows why she chose this perfession) and my fiancee couldn't deal with it. So they fought and fought until one day it they called it quits. There were alot of other things but this is the main reason for all the fighting.
Re: I'm the step mother chaos40: [quote author=octoberbaby link=topic=41588.msg467482#msg467482 date=1172092719">
Long story short she decided she wanted to work as a stripper (god only knows why she chose this perfession) and my fiancee couldn't deal with it. So they fought and fought until one day it they called it quits. There were alot of other things but this is the main reason for all the fighting.
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because she likes the attention and the money is pretty good?
Re: I'm the step mother octoberbaby: [quote author=chaos40 link=topic=41588.msg467466#msg467466 date=1172091996">
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My god how do you deal with your step child's mother. She constantly talks about me or texts and calls my phone to say bad things to me. I can barely take it anymore. Isn't it enough that I treat her son well and love him? Would she rather me not like him and treat him badly? She is obsessed with me and the fact that I'M NOT HIS MOM...this comes out of her mouth on a daily basis. I understand that it's hard for mothers to deal with another women in their childs life, but come on give me a break everyonce in a while. Please tell me how to cope with her? I'm at a breaking point. And by the way she has a new boyfriend who she has another child with, so it can't be about my fiancee.
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Oh yes it is!
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Can you explain further? Please? I've thought about that too, I just don't really know though.
Re: I'm the step mother td7629:
That said, I was not the OW. If you were, I can see the problem and you will have quite an uphill climb.
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This is what I was trying to say if you were the OW.. I could see the anger and hostility but if you were not than I do not understand it.. I agree with what Joker said that she probably feels threatened by you. I'm sorry.. it sounds like a tough situation.
Re: I'm the step mother octoberbaby: [quote author=Magalucia link=topic=41588.msg467481#msg467481 date=1172092633">
My husband's first wife was never directly hostile to me but I heard from my step son when he was much younger that she hated me. It was hard to take, but I can't imagine how difficult that must be for you. Over time, she and I had brief conversations and she understood that my only concern was the happiness and welfare of her son. Now that my husband and I are separated I take my daughter to play with her brother at the first wife's house. I think because we think alike in terms of doing what is best for the kids we get along well.
That said, I was not the OW. If you were, I can see the problem and you will have quite an uphill climb.
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Well we did get along for a very short period of time, she actually called me several times as if we were friends to chat, but all of a sudden she has a huge problem with me, and also says that her son tells her I said this and that, which I know she is making up, cause I can't see this coming from my four year old step son's mouth.
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