why did i feel elated this morning after that e-mail qmambo: i was in the depths of despair yday after seeing my counsellor and cried for hours, there hs been no contact for a few days now, a mutual friend who i have been avoiding keeps emailing and texting and last night she called and i didnt answer, then this morning she sent me a few more emails so i responded saying that i am not alright and i am seeing a counsellor and she sent the nicest email back saying that he has done the most unspeakable horrible thing to me and that made me feel uplifted for a short while - i thought yes i am not going mad it wasnt all my fault - other people can see what he has done. She also said that she saw but he had left early and in her opinion she thinks it is starting to sink in what he has done to me.................. that made me feel good for a short time. now i just feel like complete crap again.
Re: why did i feel elated this morning after that e-mail Copperblade: Maybe it validated your feelings and what you were going through. But it still doesn't take away reality. Only time will cure you for good.
Re: why did i feel elated this morning after that e-mail JNA: mqo worte: "She also said that she saw but he had left early and in her opinion she thinks it is starting to sink in what he has done to me.................. that made me feel good for a short time. now i just feel like complete crap again."
I don't know a lot about your story as I have not read here for a awhile but...
You will feel like "crap" for a time...
What she is doing they call the Push/Pull...Some call it other things
Me I just call it BS...BS you don't need...
When you begin to distinguish "reality" from BS then you will be on the path to healing. Because you will be able to read her like a "book"
I let someone BS me for A Long time before I learned her game...
I played way to long and was left with a lot of anger and bitterness over it
When a woman...Man or anyone else plays with your head then send them packing and never look back...
As hard as it is you have too...Or you can let it drive you nuts
Don't worry for now about what she is doing...
Worry about what you are doing...
When she see's you are no longer anamored by her or what she is doing then she will come running back to you
The best thing I ever learned off any person was this...
Never listen to "what" they say...
Watch "what" they do...
She can tell you anything...But what she does is a whole different story my friend
Met someone just like her...Once Upon A Time...
Stay Strong
JNA
Re: why did i feel elated this morning after that e-mail qmambo: hi jna, sorry my typing is terrible lately i am female and ex was a m for all intents and purposes :-)
what i was trying to explain was that she had emailed me today saying she saw him at the weekend and he left early and in her opinion she thinks that was he has done is just starting to sink in
quick recap
been togethr 7 years, living with him for 3, i moved moved from ireland to Oz to be with him - we both went hom for xmas and were due to fly back thru vietname 2gether for hols before rteurning here. in short he phoned me up day before we were due to fly out of ireland saying its over, hoping i would stay there, but i didnt spend lousy week in V and came back here, igot kickedout of my home, he got everything, everything was in his name adn we are now in legalities he has offered me a lump sum which i am taking. hes been contacting me all the time since we got back telling me to come over, lets see how things go, ra ra ra, last timei saw him was sunday night after he spent all day with sat - cos i have effin no one here save for the couple (the girl who emailed me) - but last sunday i saw him and said to him that what he has done tome is terrible and calculating and a whole heap of stuff and that was last i heard from him. this was pre her e-mail.
Re: why did i feel elated this morning after that e-mail qmambo: oh F88K him now - i just got the agreement and he is trying to shaft me i saw (not sposed to but ol shit4brains also emailed me what his sols put in his email to him as well as the agreement). he has wrong ..erm no a date which doesnt exist for final payment of 31st april and is trying to stuff me up with car business.
i am so angry i am sitting at work after he has taken everything and then i had to txt him to say we need to talk about it and he wont return my friggin text - god i wanna smash his little head in right now
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