Re: Depressed and can't snap out of it darkrose: [quote author=emily18 link=topic=41604.msg468583#msg468583 date=1172176657">
AND NO, there are not "other ways"to please a woman.
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I will have to respectfully disagree with this.. I have been with women who consider intercourse the "icing on the cake" rather than the main dish. I will give you that this varies from woman to woman, but if the only way you can "get off" is via intercourse..wow. You're a rare breed.
And not to toot my own horn, but I would say I'm far from sexually inexperienced.
Re: Depressed and can't snap out of it emily18: Scuba DVR, I AM NOT closed minded. You are really infuriating me at a time right now when my patience is extremely THIN. Can you kindly please leave my post??? I would really appreciate it. Thank you.
Re: Depressed and can't snap out of it scuba_dvr: No problem. Sorry for the trouble.
Good luck to you Emily.
Re: Depressed and can't snap out of it darkrose: [quote author=emily18 link=topic=41604.msg468583#msg468583 date=1172176657"> There are some situations that cannot be solved with a therapist. [/quote">
I agree with this. I don't know of any sex therapists who could bring Anna Nicole Smith back to life.
[quote"> A sex therapist cannot MAKE him have an erection, CAN THEY?? I don't think so. If anyone could have helped with this problem, it would have been his urologist, and he was not able to help with the current treatments they have available. [/quote">
So I take it this is a physiological issue, then? Where did you say this previously? I'm not trying to attack you or anything, but how is Scuba to know this? From what I've read, a lot of the impotence issues men face can be psychological. As such, a sexual therapist might be useful to get to the ROOT cause of the problem if it is in the emotional realm. Popping viagra ain't gunna fix the problem, only make it go away for a while.
[quote"> I understand you are trying to offer advice but your advice is not helpful. Therapy is not a cure all for every problem. I also should not have to justfiy the fact that I wanted a husband who could satisfy my basic needs when I was only in my twenties!!! NOT my fifties!!! It's too bad for me, I got a really crappy deal in life. Oh well, now I have to deal with it I guess.
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If you're seeking advice, the polite and customary thing to do is accept any advice, even if it doesn't necessarily apply to you, graciously. No need to attack anyone who's just trying to help you. We only know what you're telling us. Not to get fixated on one issue, but I don't see where you said that his impotence had to do with a physical issue. Just try to calm down. :)
Re: Depressed and can't snap out of it emily18: "..wow. You're a rare breed.
And not to toot my own horn, but I would say I'm far from sexually inexperienced."
Wishing for impossible things, what you said was very insensitive and RUDE!! Can you please get off of my post??? again, a rude man who is trying to toot your own horn as you said or perhaps compensate for your own shortcomings or fears??? I am in no mood and this is why the internet is not a good time for me right now. For insensitive people like yourself. Can you please leave my post?
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