Re: Divorce was final today Older Guy: The only thing you can do is to be happy when you're happy and be sad when you're sad. It's human to feel "all" emotions.
Just a reminder though that there is often a very fine line between "love" and "hate" ..... and its easy to confuse one for the other.
You'll be okay
OG
Re: Divorce was final today sosad05: Wow, I cant believe its over already. I remember the first day you were on OJAR with "your story". Its very bittersweet. Somedays Im still shocked thats its over. Somedays the marriage just seems like a dream from forever ago. Well, at least now you can move on with your life. Best wishes!
Re: Divorce was final today spooky: I hope it's smooth from here on out dude.
Re: Divorce was final today doseyclwn: Yeah, good luck. Mine was final about 2 weeks ago. I too felt mixed emotions, but I'm glad to have it done with. I'm in another relationship now that I'm really much happier with. It's just weird to have that kind of failure down on paper, a matter of public record, yanno? In any case, congrats!!!
Re: Divorce was final today gagirl: My divorce was final March 7. I know what you mean. I was relieved, but really sad, happy it was over, but crushed. It sucks to have all of those feelings. This is a major life event to get over. I am trying to take it one day at a time. It is tough, hang in there :)