I want validation...it's so lame. masterlow: So I found at this past weekend that my Ex broke up with her BF du-jour.
It bothers me that she isn't trying to use me as a crutch. It bothers me that she isn't calling me looking for some cheap, selfish way to heal her wounds.
I want the opportunity to tell her "Fvck Off!", but I'm not getting it.
I feel pretty lame for wanting this from her.
Re: I want validation...it's so lame. Percy123: Pull up a seat next to me my good man....plenty of room at the pity party. I am searching for same thing for the same reasons. Trouble is I don't know if it is what we really want or if it is gonna lead to other emotions and feelings. The old saying "Don't wish for anything too hard, you may get it" aplys here.
Al I want is for her to squirm and fail a little and to get a call saying she made a big mistake, but then I think what the hell would I say and how would it make me feel? Would I get some weird sense of hope? Would I really get the satisfaction I think I want, or would it just bring back stuff and leave me more hurting.....
I want to be missed. I want to feel like I was important and that I was someone special to someone who was special to me. I want proff that she suffered and cried alone like I did. But I am afraid someday, I just might get that.
Re: I want validation...it's so lame. licy: i feel the same about my ex, i hope one day he comes crawling back from the tart he left me for just so i can tell him to go jump off a cliff!
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Re: I want validation...it's so lame. spooky: That's not uncommon. Don't worry about it because I'm another who would love to have that opportunity.
Re: I want validation...it's so lame. missu: Wow, Percy...you couldn't have said it better...
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