Hes emailed me back, IM A MESS.......i dont know what to do !!!!!!!! :( licy: Hi guys,
When i found out the other night about him leaving me for that girl and not the job in my drunken state i emailed him saying:
"You should of just told me the truth instad of making up a lie"
I really didnt think he would email back i sent that on saturday and now this evening he ahs just emailed back asking me what the truth is :S
All a sudden i feel sick and uneasy again i dont think i can cope with his stupid mind games if thats what this is, i have the feeling he wants me to say i know about this girl just so he can email back saying yes i love her so get lost or somat like that, i dont know what to do should i just ignore it i dont know if im strong enough right now to cope if hes going to start getting nasty with me about her.
Please any advice would really help right now im a mess :(
Lucy xxxxxxx
Re: Hes emailed me back, IM A MESS.......i dont know what to do !!!!!!!! :( darkrose: Can I ask you something? As someone who's marriage got destroyed by a third party, do you really think knowing "the truth" is going to make it hurt any less or make you feel any better?
Re: Hes emailed me back, IM A MESS.......i dont know what to do !!!!!!!! :( licy: i know the truth now and it hurts, it hurts more that he would lie to me to such extent as he did.
when i got the mail tonight It upset me for about 20 mins then i was ok, im not going to reply becos i know he could either denie it or write back something nasty like shes better then you or somat i dont know i just cant cope with it
I called a friend to stop myself emailing back on implus. I think its better if i ignore it, he can go bed tonight thinking what isit that i know, if i reply he'l just think he can walk all over me
Re: Hes emailed me back, IM A MESS.......i dont know what to do !!!!!!!! :( Percy123: I would just let it sit for a while. It cannot be healthy for you to engage him in a discussion over this. You are the wounded party. What he did was wrong. I thinkit is correct ot say does it really matter. I think sometimes a little truth is enough and you have that. Anything more is gonna hurt.
When you are passionate and upset, it is not the time to talk to him. Someone is gonna say something they regret. Give yourself some time to think.
Re: Hes emailed me back, IM A MESS.......i dont know what to do !!!!!!!! :( cs9043: I'm sorry that you feel this way. It's hard to admit that you are feeling this way and I am sure you are trying to find answers. I think that maybe you should seek professional help. Not that there is anything wrong with you but it may give you some things to do in order to get you life back in order, with or without him. I understand what you are going through wanting answers. I am going through something similar and I asked for a lot of details. I felt that it was necessary to get everything out in the open to get to the root of the problem. I am accepting that she may not want to work things out and even if we try it still may end in failure. It's not an easy thing to think about but I have to take the time to think about what's best for me as well as her. I promise that things will get better with time. Take care of yourself.
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