Re: I want my kids!!!!! doodlesmore: JMD :-[
i know....i know your right.......i am trying to get everything in order....in the mean time i am going nuts.......idunno....not many peeps are going through what i am...so ....i can't expect everyone to understand.
JMD...ty for being a kind ear.......your a sweet soul..huggss :-*
i know i am the odd ball here........but....what can i say......seems to be the story of my life :P
Re: I want my kids!!!!! boysithurts: doodles
dudette, sorry, guess i was missing pieces of your story, your stbx is a selfish jerk. i know you were hoping to reconcile with him, is that an option? the OW
when did she come into the picture? how are your kids doing in general? you can't be reasonable with him now, you need to get a lawyer, he needs to pay for his actions. i am the last person on this planet that would opt. for an ugly war, for the sake of the kids. but i see no other option. you have to put up a facade. anger or emotion aside. get what you want, the adulterer can't get a way with what he is doing.
Re: I want my kids!!!!! doodlesmore: boys,
the OW was in the picture before he left me. he left my (our house) to go to hers. sol...she has been in the pisture as long as we have been seperated. the thirst 3 months the kids were with me until i could no longer keep them and provide for them properly.....i asked him to take that responsibility.....i had no choice at the time. the kids did have a hard time adjusting...but they are doing good......as good as can be expected.
If i could afford a lawyer...i would get one...hun...if i could afford one then my kids would have never been with him in the first place.
i don't want an ugly war.....i don't want to be at war with him....i am not a fighter....i just want to have my kids....
and as far as him being an adulterer.....no...he was not....but he broke my trust in many other ways....which hurts just as much :'(
Re: I want my kids!!!!! Loshyra: Doddle,
I am sooo sorry to hear about what is going on. I want to talk more about this, but am not going to do it on this post. I have sent you a PM...
I hope it helps, even a litte
Re: I want my kids!!!!! dealingwithit: I feel for you doodles my situation is not as rough as yours my wife and I have been seperated 4 mos. and I have the kids every other weekend and
2 nites for a couple hours on my weekends and 3 nights for a couple hours on my off weekends and they are not really affected other than my oldest who will be 4 soon doesn't want me to leave he wants me to come home and stay which is a whole different situation in itself, but to keep the kids away from you is wrong and I understand to an extent to your feelings, good luck to you I hope for the best for you and your kids.
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