Time changes everything Falcon554: Comming back to this board, its sure hard to read some of these posts. I see and read the same feelings I felt 2 years ago.
Here I am 2 years later, I and my family went thru hell for 2 years. So where am I 2 years later? Back with my x-wife. Trying like hell to get our selfs out of a mess we both created.
We are still divorced but trying to make it. Things arnt story book, its hard everyday. But deep down we both do love eachother but so much pain in the past on both our parts, it takes alot of work to get over stuff.
If it does not work out this time atleast I know I gave it my all, much more then I did for the first 18 years of our marraige.
Why post this? I went thru and read so many posts and I can feel the pain, and boy I was there. I had all those feelings, but as they say time does change everything. Its hard to understand that now but it does.
I feel for everyone out there, just hang in there and take care of yourself and your kids if you have any.
Scott
Re: Time changes everything tripny2k6: THats a very nice post. thanks for sharing that.
Re: Time changes everything Spike: Good to hear from you Falcon. I wondered where you went. We joined about the same time. I was thehitekrednek back then.
I hope that you can do this, and make it work. I'm here rooting for you. Keep us posted.
Best of luck
Re: Time changes everything cs9043: I too am glad to hear that you are working things out. It gives me hope for my own problems. I have been trying to think about things that we are doing wrong and then thinking about if we have been trying to make any positive approachs to these problems. My wife and I have been compiling a list of things we see in ourselves and each other we need to work on/change. At least we will get a clearer picture of what we are looking for. I guess that sometimes love isn't enough.
Re: Time changes everything cab1000: Falcon554,
Its so funny that you decided to come back and post now. I was here about a year ago, pouring my little heart out, reaching for any hand available. I was afraid to come back here, because I really did not want to be reminded of that time period.
I too am currently back with my wife. We were just about divorced, but never finally did. We got as far as taking the divorced parenting class. Now, we live together at home. Things are not perfect. In fact, that's the reason I came back here, to remember where I came from, and to gain the courage I need face our current problems.
Time really does help things.
So good luck with your challenges, and I'll keep on keepin on with mine...
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