Re: Time changes everything Falcon554: [quote author=cab1000 link=topic=42065.msg477264#msg477264 date=1173285674">
Falcon554,
Its so funny that you decided to come back and post now. I was here about a year ago, pouring my little heart out, reaching for any hand available. I was afraid to come back here, because I really did not want to be reminded of that time period.
I too am currently back with my wife. We were just about divorced, but never finally did. We got as far as taking the divorced parenting class. Now, we live together at home. Things are not perfect. In fact, that's the reason I came back here, to remember where I came from, and to gain the courage I need face our current problems.
Time really does help things.
So good luck with your challenges, and I'll keep on keepin on with mine...
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Yea thats why I come back everyonce in a while, just to remeber how horrible I felt without my insane wife :)
Our Divorce was easy, no lawers nothing, it was just done.
This is from a letter she wrote me just a few weeks ago, Its a list of things that she worries about.
1. What if I hurt him AGAIN!
2. What if it all goes back to the way it was! (no real relationship)
3. Do I want a relationship?
4. Does he want a relationship with a woman who cheated?
5. Im scared, you know me better then anyone ever will.
6. Do I want to be alone.
See she is having a hard time giving me 100% of her and I see why, she spent years being ignored by ME!! (I dont ignore her anymore, sometimes just the oposite lol)
But how long do I keep trying? Thats our problem now.
Not thats she is out doing what she use to. Its just hard to forget some of the painfull as hell stuff that went on between us.
One thing I know I learnd is that relationships SUCK!!!!! LOL
