Re: I thought I knew the worst...I was so wrong :( brielle123: The others have already said it all...I just wanted to extend my sympathies for your situation as well.
I know it hurts, and you are probably just so angry and sad all at the same time. Just keep in mind that it may not be today, it may not be tommorrow, maybe not next week, next month, or hell...might not even happen next year, but eventually his bad karma will catch up with him....it ALWAYS does.
Hang in there....there are to be good things in store for you in the future, just try and remember that.
Re: I thought I knew the worst...I was so wrong :( ace1234: Hey,
Man that is tough...I am going through some of the things you are right now, but not like that. (that I know of...)
That sucks so much that people need to lie about what they are up to and can't keep their vows. My wife was and is up to something, I just can't nail it down. So, I've stopped looking. I decided that I don't want to know.
I already am having a low opinion of people's character right now and I don't want to further drop it. Just a suggestion, but, do you really want to know? I know it's hard but, I would use this as a bargaining chip to make sure you're divorce goes smoothly for you. If he's being unreasonable then you have got a card up your sleeve.
PM me if you want, I'm usually around. That's tough. The major thing my therapist wants me to do is to forgive 'myself' for everything that has gone down. Logically, it should be easy because I don't have anything to be ashamed of, but it is still hard to forgive yourself for the marriage breakdown.
Stay strong today.
l8r
Re: I thought I knew the worst...I was so wrong :( MM_02: That is terrible
You are going to have some painful time ahead of you. But I assure you that you will come out of it all right. Knowledge is good, and I will tell you that this crap is going to hurt a lot. Prepare yourself for the emotional roll-costar. Don’t worry about him because nature has its own ways of paying back and he will get what he deserves sooner or later. Trust in the Lord because he is the only one trustworthy.
Re: I thought I knew the worst...I was so wrong :( hope: I am so sorry that you had to read all that. As I read you post I was imagining each little detail hurtingyou more and more as you read.
Hang in there. And you're not alone, keep writing to us and let us know how you're doing.
Re: I thought I knew the worst...I was so wrong :( Percy123: I hate to tell you this but that is great news not bad news. As painful as it is to take this medicine right now, you will be grateful in the future. It will help your healing process. You have the answers and the closure so many search forever and never get.
You would have made a recovery only to learn this awful truth later and have more grief at a time when you least expected. It is all out there. You are sure of everything. You can see him for what he is and accept the divorce for your own reasons now.
You have the moral high ground and if it is gonna end it is better to to have your strength and peace of mind.
I know you see this as devasting right now, but you will be grateful.
I am sorry for your pain right now.
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