I kissed him again... missu: In a dream...last night. Goes without saying that I am a bit disturbed today. It had been a while since I had seen him in my dreams. It was all so vivid. I even felt weird about the way my family was treating him, since we were back together after all this mess. But I was happy to have him back.
How often do u dream about your Xs?
Re: I kissed him again... licy: i also had a dream about my ex last night. we must of been back together because we were kissing and cuddling up in my room, then i woke up and feel back asleep and we were shopping for a dress to wear to a party :S all the time in my dream tho i was thinking how come he is here we broke up now hes back!
Its was very strange, guess im not used to be without him yet not as much as i thought i was anyways ::)
Re: I kissed him again... lifeunexpected: I'm pretty fresh into my breakup, and the dreams happen every single night. It's awful, because I've always had very vivid dreams. Last night, I had a dream that he came over to my house saying he made a mistake and wanted me back. I looked him in the eye long and hard, then kissed him. He kissed me back, and said I love you. We proceded to cuddle on the couch while he held my hand. And then I woke up, feeling like I wanted to throw up because I was so dissapointed it wasn't real. It felt so real.
For me the dreams are the worst. I am afraid to go to sleep because of them. When my cat died 9 months ago, I was more devastated than I had every been. And up until recently, every single night I had a dream that he came back to me and I was given a second chance. That hurt like hell when I woke up to the silence of no meowing at my door like he did every morning.
The dreams eventually become less frequent, but one will always pop up here and there. They were a big part of your life and are still in your mind. The mind is funny. I had a sex dream about a guy that I haven't seen in 6 years, and its not like we were friends anyway. Like what is that?!
Re: I kissed him again... missu: Haha...weird!
I know, I remember that stage...I dreamt of him every night. I even remember one morning waking up from the dream and saying immediately even before opening my eyes: "God, why do u torture me like this??". And of course I couldn't sleep much because of that same reason. I woke up like at 7am every morning, even if I didn't have class, or even on weekends. It was awful.
They will start fading from our minds...We just have to hold on and pull through.
Re: I kissed him again... licy: My doggie died last month day b4 valentines day:( i dream about her that night i dreamt i was walking through the house with her then she stopped by the front door and i said you have to stay her now sweet heart and she looked so sad :( i think when something trumatic happens like that our brain reacts in any way possible to comfort us even if that means making what we wish for in reality possible in our dreams but your right waking up to realise they have not come back afterall does hurt so much :( i found it very difficult to get out of bed this morning after i dreamt of my ex coming back last night. we broke up in the past and he came back i can tell you the feeling you get whne he says omg i made a mistake is like the biggest relief ever, needless to say he begged me to take him back then was gone again 2 months later even after loads of promises and reassuring me
hurts like hell :(
me also on the whole sex dream things!!! i had a few dodgy dreams about sex, with guys from my past even about an old crush from uni while i was still with my ex! thank god i dont talk in my sleep or at least i dont think i do!!!! ;)
i must say i woke up wondering wether i should really be with my uni crush rather then the ex! hey perhaps i should i might have to go hunt him out again now im free and single ;)
xx
