truely getting over it, success storys ? licy: i was just wondering if anyone here who been with someone who they thought was the one buts its not worked out, if they have gone on to find someone else who totally truely blew your ex out of the water and made you forget about them ?
Right now im worried il just compare everyone i ever date again to my ex and its driving me crazy thinking about it. I find it hard to think of myself finding the happyness i had when i was with him and things were great with some other guy
anyone have any success storys ? :-\
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Re: truely getting over it, success storys ? darkrose: I wouldn't be on this forum if that happened to me.. BUT..I think one of the keys to me getting over her was to learn how to love myself. I think I'm a damn fine catch and I feel bad for all you women who miss out on my awesomeness (hey, I've got an ego today..I'm rollin' with it).
The stbxw kind of "rescued" me from a bad place relationship wise..I thought she was the one, but it turns out she was no different than the one she rescued me from.. right down to the stalking.
Re: truely getting over it, success storys ? licy: :)
your right the first step is to start loving myself again
i think last night i started to like myself again, after what my ex did it knocked my confidence alot. i sorted out some photos from about 3 years ago b4 i met him, i looked so good, happy and healthy in all of them and i remember i was very happy b4 i met him. Helped me think i can be even more happy now that hes gone and i dont have to worry about all his issues anymore
Re: truely getting over it, success storys ? Percy123: I know a friend who has a brother, who knows this guy who fully recovered from a break-up and went on to be happy.
Kidding, just trying to add some humor to a tough situation. I agree that this would not be the place to find those stories.
I ahve one from the past....Fell in love with a girl. 3 years. she left me flat, blindsided. I wa slove sick and crushed for a year....after that went on a tear, women left and right...then met this girl. One date and I knew. Bike rides and footsies, for many years. Built a great life. but alas the story ended. But the point is it might not have. It could have been happily ever after and that is why we will try again, just not today.
