AHHH! Zipsfb: So finally stopped talking to the ex after getting back together for 8 months and breaking it up during the beginning of january. Even after dreams, thinking about her, and hardship, I learned to get over it... never broke "no contact". Now I'm dating someone, and things are going well.
A few minutes ago I got an e-mail from my X.... haven't replied. We made a deal to keep no contact until her birthday later this month. She said "So I didn't make it to my birthday to get in touch, but I figured 2 months was long enough ha ha.".
What do I do?! God this sucks!
Re: AHHH! just_me_detroit: Ignore it until her birthday and then write her back.
Re: AHHH! bjs2005: I would wait, I have an X that emails, writes, IMs and now she is leaving messages like "thank you for not talking to me, it has helped me a lot, gimmie a call when you are ready to talk again I am much better now etc."
I haven't called/written to her yet, she needs to move on and by calling me, thanking me for not talking to her, that's not moving on in my opinion.
Give it time, I know it's hard. It is hard for me not to call her, she was my friend/girlfriend for so long, but we broke up for a reason and I tried to remain friends afterwards and not do the no contact rule and it never works.
Stay strong.
Re: AHHH! Zipsfb: I responded... :-( I feel bad now.
Re: AHHH! Topaz: That's okay, just go back to No Contact.
