Re: NOT SURE WHAT IT MEANS wizer_now: [quote author=xbase97 link=topic=42112.msg477920#msg477920 date=1173383946">
SHE KEEPS CALLING ME AND COMMING TO TALK TO ME OR INVITE ME TO GO OUT WITH HER, BUT WHEN I DO SHE GETS LIKE SHE DOES NOT WANT TO BE WITH ME AND GET AWAY FROM ME AGAIN?[/quote">
[quote author=xbase97 link=topic=42112.msg477920#msg477920 date=1173383946">
DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY INSIGHT AS TO WHAT SHE IS DOING WITH THE I DON'T WANT YOU BUT WON'T STOP TRYING TO TALK TO ME EVERY NIGHT?????
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Yeah, I got some advice.
First, STOP YELLING!
Secondly...yours is the classic case of the unattainable being the most desirable. When she doesn't have you, and/or perceives that she CANNOT have you, she wants you...then, when you make yourself available, you become less attractive to her..there is no challenge, none of the "missing you".
Sounds like you can make a save here...maybe...first thing you gotta do is force the time and space thing, otherwise known as "no contact".
Set yourself a personal minimum, at least a month...see what happens to her feelings for you. And when and if you get back together, I don't want to see any clingyness or neediness on your end WHATSOEVER.
GOT THAT?!
