Re: My confusing story alonewith2: Of course you wanted things different, but sometimes that is not in your control.
I agree with the others. If you want him back, you have to set your ground rules for what you will tolerate. If you take him back anyway, without those things, then you will just end up where you are later down the road.
His drinking, his drug use, and his need for other women are not in your control. Only he can decide to give up those things.
Re: My confusing story ace1234: oh sorry Percy, I didn't realize you were joking. I have a hard time with sarcasm in person let alone with email. lol.
Re: My confusing story wizer_now: [quote author=gns link=topic=42500.msg484450#msg484450 date=1174353399"> Three months later I found out that he was emailing another woman ...and was drunk calling a few women (including a prior f**k buddy)...He has problems with drinking (can't not drink for a full day) and doing lots of pot every day ...His drug addicted friends moved in nearby ...started doing pot regularly. [/quote">
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How do I even sort this out?
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By leaving. Too many negatives if you ask me.
Live is short and there are plenty of nice guys out there.
Re: My confusing story gns: Thank you all for the replies. Talked to him today, he seems to be moving on and in the conversation he claimed that he wants to be with someone who "accepts him for who he is" (meaning doing drugs and drinking) and all his friends think he is so much more himself without me in his life.
Am very sad and it seems so unfair. Maybe soon it will be a good thing/a relief but right now it upets me that he is moving on and portrays me and sees me as the bad guy???
Re: My confusing story gns: I am pretty sure my ex is probably sleeping with the woman that he was email flirting with during our relationship (who has/had a live-in boyfriend).
I feel so hurt and betrayed and humiliated (she works at the same place and flaunts her closeness with him). I can't belive he could be so hurtful, self-centered and disrespectful. I feel like the last three years (including buying a house) have just been a joke!
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