Why do you lie? flipflopnomore: I just don't get it J. Why are you trying to play both sides here? Babe, it's too small of a town to do that. Don't you realize that every, single public thing you do gets back to me within days if not hours?
Over the weekend you were calling and texting me over and over. I can tell in your messages that you were drinking. Wow. Come to find out you were sloppy drunk at a party making out with your um...."friend". Yeah, then I heard you were so messed up she had to take you home at 9. Ewww. you make me sick. What? did you go in the bathroom and text me so she wouldn't see? Do you erase your messages where you tell me you love and miss me so she can't find them?
I read her emails you jackass. She thinks you are her prince charming. HA. I would be scared to death if I were you that if her and I ever cross paths in town I can whip out all of her messages from you to me.
Your a sick MF!! Wow. So which one do you really love? Me, your now exwife. Or her, the stupid idiot that got involved with you?
Re: Why do you lie? elf624: You were right. This is the exact same sh*t my stbxh pulls. Once a month, he calls, stops by or sends a text message with the I miss you I love you crap. And if he does something stupid, I hear about it from everyone.
I'm sorry he keeps doing this to you. You find yourself moving on and then he calls and you get dragged right back in. I guess it's just a game to keep us from really letting go. Be strong. They can only do this to us if we let them.
Re: Why do you lie? flipflopnomore: Thanks elf. I seem to go in cycles of how I feel. I go from depression and devastation to able to put one foot in front of the other. Lately, its been the tougher days. I guess I just hate hearing how good he is doing and how much fun he and new gf are having. He doesn't deserve it. He deserves to rot in hell.
Re: Why do you lie? elf624: I hear things like that too. Except, I don't think it's really true. He is probably pretending to be ok (or he thinks he is ok) and hiding his true feelings. Once they are done spiraling out of control, reality will smack them in the face. Hopefully by then, you will be ready to tell him no. It took me 5 times of my stbxh leaving and coming back before I realized he is completely messed up. I don't want to be someone's second choice or Plan B. And yes, they do deserve to rot in hell. I have to believe that bad people eventually get what they deserve. We may be the ones in pain now, but in the long run we will be the happy ones. We are going through the process.
Re: Why do you lie? flipflopnomore: I know he isn't too happy....or so he says. He said he is doing this to numb the pain. I think he just says that. This was all his idea. You would think if he was in pain he would have changed things. I don't think I am even Plan B. I just don't think he wants me moving on for some reason.
I want to be there when karma bites him on the ass. I want to see the full effects.
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