How is it? flipflopnomore: How is it that the ones who fu**ed up, wrecked everyone's life, devastated families and children are the ones who move on so quickly?
My ex claims he doesn't have a gf, but yet has been seen at parties all over her and spends time with her and I sit here alone night after night. My phone is not ringing at all and I don't think it will.
How is it fair or right that I am paying the price of devastation and lonliness after everything HE has done and he has someone?
Re: How is it? Percy123: This is the eternal question. I ponder it constantly......
It kills me.
Re: How is it? PennyLane: He might be doing ok right now but it WILL plato off for him. You are moving ahead at your own pace. Not as fast as him BUT his leaving will catch up with him.
Try not to focus on how "well" he is doing. His time will come. You in the mean time focus on you and rebuilding your life.
Re: How is it? flipflopnomore: I feel like this is consuming me. This is all I can think about. He left last July!! Our divorce is probably final now. Just waiting for the final papers in the mail. Maybe that is why I am miserable. But you would think after almost 9 months of this crap i would be happy its over. Now on top of hurt and betrayed, I am angry and pissed off.
Re: How is it? flipflopnomore: I got no sleep last night. I thought about them somewhere having fun or watching tv on the couch before they went to sleep. I am totally alone.
The sucky part is I tried dating and either I am not ready or the guy was a freak. I found so many quirky things about him I didn't like.
This weekend is his birthday. Im sure his family and his gf are going to be celebrating it.
Uggh. I have to get myself out of this.
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