I'm really stupid and don't learn easily..... cdoulatiff: So....T
(we broke up 3 weeks ago b/c he cheated twice)
called yesterday and asked me if I'd like to come over for dinner....after a little hesitation I said yes....
Then we ended up going to a movie.....he kissed my head and held my hand the whole night. He was sweet.....and affectionate....more so than ever before. Then we went back to his house....he asked me to stay for a little bit.
I did...we layed there, he held me...kissed me, rubbed my back. No talking just enjoying eachothers company...
I didn't let it go any further though. I'm still mad, I don't even know what his motive was last night.....more than likely it was to get sex.....so if it was....he lost.
Today...I feel dumb for putting myself into a situation where salt could be poured on the wound. REALLY REALLY DUMB!!!!
Anyone else make this mistake?
Re: I'm really stupid and don't learn easily..... cdoulatiff: Does everyone pretty much try this? if asked to hang out, do you go back just to see what it would be like? Or do most have more strength than me? I'm curious.....I don't understand what about me psychologically would want to do that to myself....I fell for this man....hard and fast....he abused it.......why would i continue to not let myself fully heal?
Re: I'm really stupid and don't learn easily..... Cherry: Been there, done that.......got the tshirt, burned it in a bonfire.
It has to come from you hun. You have to deep down believe that you deserve better and you are better than that. You cannot let fear and regret rob you of the rest of your life.
Re: I'm really stupid and don't learn easily..... bjs2005: NO CONTACT, it's whats for breakfast!
Yes, he was probably trying to get laid.
Re: I'm really stupid and don't learn easily..... darkrose: Yeah, I think he was trying to get laid, too. Remember why you broke up with him. It'll go a long way in making you not want to be around him.
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