Re: What is it that you want? HarlemAngel001: He was going through alot. I know he was sick of his parents always controlling him, making him always come home straight after school and watch his baby brother. His mom got mad that he was always over at my house, spending time with me. He's whipped by her, whatever she says is law. And I know he saw his biological dad for the 1st time in 2 yrs, and when they asked if he was doing it, he lied to them and said no because he didnt think it was their buisness....That's how he got grounded, and if he had just held on with me until Tues, we could of been doing lots of stuff right now. His dad used to beat him, and he had bruises and he verbally abused him too, so that's why he moved back in with his mom and stepdad. But he said the past 2 yrs he's been living there have been hell, he has no freedom he says. And when he got reconnected with his dad, he was really happy because he thought he would be able to have a good relationship with him. When he got grounded, alot went down. His mom was furious with him, and they gave him an ultimatium. Either move in with his dad (who lives in an 2 story apartment 30 minutes away from town, school, and friends/family and not keep his truck) or stay with his mom and stepdad in their 3 story house and be grounded for like 3 weeks. He was seriously considering his dad's because he thought he was opted for a better life, but he decided on his mom's, because it would just be to hard to commute and everything. Then his dad got mad at him, and he complained about him to me and said he was being a little bitch about it...When he first got grounded, he called me almost in tears, and said, "I would understand if you want to break up with me...You wouldn't be the first to do it because of my parents." Apparently I was the 1st girl he had taken to meet his parents in almost a year, and he was very scared for me to meet them...I told him, "I don't want to break up with you." and he's like, "Okay good. THANK GOD!" We were doing so great, and we were getting along okay with his restrictions. Then after that one weekend he completly changed, and I have no idea why. I just want him back!
