Re: How do I get out? alonewith2: She's probably hoping you will change your mind after a little bit. She is in no way planning on changing her stance. She will just not "voice" what she wants for atleast another week or two. Then she'll bring it up again hoping that she'll get a little more out of you. If not, then she will continue the cycle...
How do I get out? just_me_detroit: I am dating 2 girls right now. One of them is pretty chill, and has the lifestyle that I enjoy and want to be part of. She seems to like me a lot, but she has been playing the game long enough to know not to push to hard to fast.
The other one is young and stunningly beautiful. I have a lot of fun when I am with her. She however is pushing pretty hard for an exclusive committed relationship. As much fun as I am having with her right now, I don't want my life to be what it would end being with her. I know I would not be happy.
I tried to break it off with her yesterday, so I could focus on the other girl, but it didn't work out that way. We talked during lunch about where we were at. I told her that I couldn't commit to her right now. She told me that just wants me, and she would be willing to go slower if that is what it would take. I don't believe her though. Her actions after our talk showed no signs of her slowing down.
I am not too good at the letting someone go thing. How should I handle this?
Re: How do I get out? Loshyra: It kinda sounds to me like she thinks that maybe given time, you would be willing to have an exclusive relationship with her. Although you do not want that. When you told her that you couldn't commit to her right now, her mind told her that you were actually saying, "I want to date you sometime....although this week is not good." or something like that probably.
You just need to tell her flat out that you are interested in another woman, and that you are wanting to see where things take you with this other person. Otherwise, from the sounds of it, she will just keep hoping that you will come back to her.
Re: How do I get out? doodlesmore: JMD,
well hun, what can i say?
considering her actions I would be more inclined to let her go completely.
If you ask a request from someone and they do not take heed to what you asked them the first time......or second time....then how well do you think things are going to be 3 weeks or even 3 months from now?
It seems obvious she is not wanting to give you the space you need. her only concerns seem to be about herself, and completely disreguards your feelings on the matter.
I would take that as a very bad sign.
perhaps you need to have another talk with her and let her go?
and hope that she does not turn stalker on you and make your life a living hell :P
Re: How do I get out? happyheart: give her my number.............lol
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