Re: Last Wonderful Memory of Your Ex. wizer_now: [quote author=td link=topic=43002.msg492836#msg492836 date=1175632268">
The last good memory I have with my ex was a weekend trip to the Poconos... he almost killed both of us on a snowmobile... LOL
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We have something in common. Both of our last memorable experiences involved something white.
Last Wonderful Memory of Your Ex. doodlesmore: I remember the last WONDERFUL memory that I had with my ex. It was while we were having problems but it was the last very happy memory i have WITH him.
Where we used to live there were two churches very close to our house. ( right across from our house and one right down our street) These two churches plus my neighbors church had decided to put on a carnival on the corner of our street to help raise money for the 3 churches.
they decided to use the empty lot right on the corner of our street. You could stand on our front porch and look at all the rides and people going to and from the carnival. My neighbors were great peeps and encouraged us to go. Whenever we had a free night during that weekend of the carnival we ( my ex and I and our two kids ) walked across the street to enjoy the mindless chaos and give the kids a little thrill.
I will never forget the smells and sounds and carnival lights. My kids laughing and occasionaly getting freightend by some of the rides that were ment for "bigger kids".
The one memory, I know I will go to my grave remembering, is the ferriswheel ride.
By the time we decided to take the kids for a ride on this, it was completly dark outside. The lights of the wheel looking like a revolving rainbow of laughter.
My ex and daughter got on first and my son and i followed. My daughter was 4 at the time and she was thrilled to be with her daddy on such a pretty and exciting trip up to the sky and back down again. My son on the other hand was 2. He had a few apprehensions about this and was clinging to me!
As I reassured my son that this was fun and i was not going to let him fall, he began to enjoy the ride.
I could hear my daughters laughter and looked up to see my ex and her laughing. I told my son to look up and see where his sister and daddy were.....he looks up and begins to laugh uncontrollably!
During the continuous round and round on the wheel my kids were having a blast wathcing all of us go up and down. During all of this laughter with my kids...my ex and I catch eachothers eyes.....and he lips out the words.....I Love You........... I swear to God above ,that at that moment I remember actually feeling loved by him......wich i had not felt in a LOOOONG time. at that moment all the arguing and fighting that we had been through just dissapeared and all i felt was love..... His love...... Love that I needed so badly!!!
I don't think he knows to this day how much those words touched my heart. :'(
That is my last lovely memory I have of my ex.
and yes.....i miss those times. I have to say that even though i miss those memories, I don't miss the constant bickering and fighting....i lost count how many walls, dishes, brooms and doors were either broke or destroyed in our arguments that we had the last year we were married.
I am tired of being that angry.....i hate being that mad. especially at someone that I really love.
After thinking about my memory I was wondering who else has a memory of their ex that was good before things went ta hell in a handbasket?
Re: Last Wonderful Memory of Your Ex. crushedman: simultaneous mind blowing orgasm, one of the best ever.
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Re: Last Wonderful Memory of Your Ex. Shadow of Myself: I actually am still making memories with my stbx. With both of us accepting the fate of our marriage, yet still living under the same roof, we've managed to salvage a friendship out of our failed marriage. We get along better today than we have in many many years.
We are able to share our children's day-to-day lives and the oddities of parenting, and while we are no longer together as anything more than roomates, we are able to co-parent better than we possibly ever have. So my memories, are of parenthood. She's snapped out of her funk and is being a great mom again, which is a gigantic relief to me.
Re: Last Wonderful Memory of Your Ex. Grenn: We're most certainly in agreement there, Jac..
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