Re: husband won't leave wizer_now: [quote author=hcw2815 link=topic=43009.msg492955#msg492955 date=1175640594"> my husband who has some serious emotional issues, flipped out and started burning pictures of me and our son, threw art he made for me into lake michigan and even threw out two leather coats he bought me. he started ranting and raving about how I am taking him away from his home and his son by asking for a divorce and was yelling like a madman.
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[quote author=crushingman link=topic=43009.msg493443#msg493443 date=1175712440">
I couldn't disagree more with the restraining order thing. The guy never threatened her... can you really blame him for being upset? Why should he have to leave the house if she is the one that wants out?
Crazy world we live in.
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The potential for violence is there. How would you feel if you talked this woman out of a restraining order and she got hurt or worse?
Re: husband won't leave crushedman: I couldn't disagree more with the restraining order thing. The guy never threatened her... can you really blame him for being upset? Why should he have to leave the house if she is the one that wants out?
Crazy world we live in.
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husband won't leave hcw2815: this weekend was really hard so i really need to vent. my husband who has some serious emotional issues, flipped out and started burning pictures of me and our son, threw art he made for me into lake michigan and even threw out two leather coats he bought me. he started ranting and raving about how I am taking him away from his home and his son by asking for a divorce and was yelling like a madman. he started packing away his things and i really don't know what set him off. it was scary so i called his father to come calm him down. his father, who doesn't really believe in divorce even though he's in his third marriage right now, spent an hour trying to talk some sense into my husband then play marriage counselor to us. he kept saying "ther's love there, there's love there" as if love is all you need to make a marriage work. he doesn't even want to admit that his son has some problems. anyway, now my husband refuses to move out. he's got his things all packed up in the living and dining rooms but he's not doing anything and he's not really talking to me. luckily our son is staying with my mother because he;s out on spring break so he hasn't been around all this drama but soon he will have to come home and see the chaos. i don't know what to do. i love this man but he needs some help for his emotional issues and i cannot save him. i've talked to his mother about letting him move back there because he is not working now (in law school) and doesn't have much money. oh and he is guilting me about that as well, saying it is wrong for me to ask for a divorce when i know he doesn't have a job to support himself. this is driving me crazy!!!!
Re: husband won't leave wizer_now: [quote author=hcw2815 link=topic=43009.msg492955#msg492955 date=1175640594"> he started ranting and raving about how I am taking him away from his home and his son by asking for a divorce and was yelling like a madman. i don't know what to do. i love this man but he needs some help for his emotional issues and i cannot save him.
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Two words. Restraining Order. Women do it all the time, my stbx did it to me, for reasons that were far from justifiable..In your case it sounds like it might be.
Re: husband won't leave Magalucia: I agree with Wizer. Get a restraining order. Pack his things and then change the locks.
You cannot have your child living in this chaos.
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