Re: husband won't leave hcw2815: you are right about me getting a restraining order and i've already called a locksmith to come to out house today. 6 years ago i got a restraining order against him because of his behavior. after a couple of years, we tried to make a go of our relationship again but his emotional problems never got better. it's hard when you love someone and you know that he is not a bad guy but because of his emotional instability, he is causing severe damage to our relationship.
Re: husband won't leave crushedman: How would I feel? Probably bad, but your question is loaded, and here is why:
If you were to ask me how I would feel if my mother went to the store to get some milk, and crashed her car and was seriously hurt- of course I would feel bad. However, there is always a chance a trip to the store will result in a serious accident. If anything, there is a greater potential for a serious accident if this women goes to the store than if she DOESN'T get a RO.
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Re: husband won't leave wizer_now: [quote author=crushingman link=topic=43009.msg493448#msg493448 date=1175712887"> If anything, there is a greater potential for a serious accident if this women goes to the store than if she DOESN'T get a RO.
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You have no where near the quantity of information to make a general statement like that. You are playing games with someone's life.
Re: husband won't leave crushedman: BS- Wizer-
Based on that logic you are playing games with someone's life everytime you ask them to run to the store. This is what happens when people divorce. Yes, some of the woman suffer physically abuse, but it's the VAST minority. Handing out an RO everytime a guy gets upset is crap, pure and simple.
cm
Re: husband won't leave wizer_now: [quote author=crushingman link=topic=43009.msg493463#msg493463 date=1175714470"> Based on that logic you are playing games with someone's life everytime you ask them to run to the store.
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No, because running to the store is not inherently risky. Staying under the same roof with a person who has a history of mental instability, which infact justified an RO in the past, and is demonstrating the potential for more dangerous behavior is risky.
Once again, we are getting involved in a circular conversation whereby you have drawn your line in the sand and will not listen to reason, I have presented my opinion and supportive facts, and there really is no where else to go with it, so I am stepping off CM's merry-go-round.
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