Re: So I have my ex's password

Re: So I have my ex's password alidelisi: DONT DO IT! If you do you might find something to hurt you more. If you dont learn to let go now you might not ever. You deserve to move on![color=blue"> [/color">
Re: So I have my ex's password ionysis: Got to admit I checked out my exes email when we split - never saw anything more interesting than junk mail and the vendors emails re cancelling our wedding :(

I felt so embarrased at myself though that I called him and asked him to change it - which he did, rather annoyingly. He's put a password on his computer too which makes me very suspicious.... I still try it every now and again when I feel an uncontrollable urge to know what is going through his head, even though I know I can't get into it now and he doesn't write emails anyway!

I have to agree though that although it's morally wrong and probably won't help it is damn tempting...!

Re: So I have my ex's password gns: I have mixed feelings about this. I did check my ex's email and phone records when we were together and found email flirtations/calls and flirtatious calls to women. I would not have known if I didn't check and the last email flirtation is what made me leave (then he decided alcohol and pot were more important).

I don't want to be the kind of person that checks (not because I am morally superior but because the constant fear and anxiety is painful) but then again I don't want to be with the kind of person that makes me feel like I have to check (is it my fault for being controlling or his for being slippery and slimy?).

I tried once after we broke up and he had changed the password. I am glad I couldn't get through at that point - I really wanted to feel connected and checking his email would not have made me fel connected.

Re: So I have my ex's password flipflopnomore: I have my ex's email password as well and all it does is bring me pain and I feel incredibly guilty looking. Most of the time there has been just junk but there have been a few emails from his "friend". She obviously does not think she is his friend. All it did was drive me crazy. It wasn't as if I could share this newfound information with him, I snooped and found it.

I don't let myself look. It's really hard and tempting at first, but it does help you get off the ride. When I was looking at the email all the time, it just kept me sucked in.

Re: So I have my ex's password wizer_now: [quote author=overover link=topic=43017.msg493144#msg493144 date=1175661953"> Any ideas on how to make it where I will not be in a situation of temptation?
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Send her an email that says you know her password and she should change it because you will be tempted to spy on her.

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