Re: Today was not a good day... hope: [quote author=Beachchick link=topic=43019.msg493170#msg493170 date=1175669501">
Then, I am imagining all of these about my exboyfriend (who I dumped in October) is out there having the TIME OF HIS LIFE...and I am at home....in the Divorce chat room.
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Hey, does that mean I should feel badly about myself too since I'm also sitting here in a divorce chat room?! ;D Just kidding.
Seriously, I think going through his/your stuff is painful, and sounds like it kicked up those bad, lonely feelings again.
I often wish I was in a relationship now too but then again, it scares me. Both sides of it scare me.
Hang in there.
Re: Today was not a good day... Beachchick: Thanks Hope...
If I didn't have Ojar, then I would be in a sad state. This site has been so helpful to me...and it's been a savior.
I think you are right. Seeing all my stuff, thinking about the person I broke up with, just hit me all at once...
I guess I shouldn't look at "what is wrong with me?", but just move on...and get into a better space...
Re: Today was not a good day... hope: [quote author=Beachchick link=topic=43019.msg493700#msg493700 date=1175735304">
I guess I shouldn't look at "what is wrong with me?", but just move on...and get into a better space...
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I didn't realize you really meant the "what is wrong with me" part. There's nothing wrong with you because you feel this bad.
In fact, did you ever think it may mean there's something *right* with you? Right, because feeling this badly over a loss like this probably means you made a real connection and let yourself be vulnerable with someone. And that you have feelings and that you let people mean something to you. And that you care.
It just sucks that it hurts so much. Really, I know, and I wish it didn't, for both you and me.
Re: Today was not a good day... Percy123: Unpacking "the box" is a tough one. I don't blame you for feeling crappy.
Al whole psot could be dedicated to the "box"
Re: Today was not a good day... ATLfoodie: I still have un packed boxes from when I moved back 10 months ago. Most are more than likely cookbooks and if any of them are clothes it wouldn't matter now because they wouldn't fit.
