Really Missing My Ex...Want To Talk highwaytohell: Hey all...I just wanted to say that I really enjoy writing in this forum because everyone here is very nice and supportive.
Well I basically have had some trouble with drugs while I was in a relationship with my EX G and I was in and out of it. But soon came the time when she felt it was the last straw and she then told me she had to break it off after 3 years. She told me she would give me some time to get better and then we could take it slow. I found out she met another guy on Lavalife and they started dating after a few friendly dates and Im totally better now but the sad thing is it look having to lose her for me to realize what an idiot I was being.
I feel kinda betrayed because she told me she would wait for me but now this ? I totally cant see myself moving on that fast and I keep telling myself shes rebounding and I want to hold her in my arms so badly and treat her like the beautiful princess she is. I regret everything I did to lose her but I want her back. I need her back. Is there anything I can possibly do to get her to realize that Ive realy changed which I have. Shes all I ever think about from the moment I wake up to the moment I close my eyes to sleep. Ive started working out and eating healthy and all she sais is thats great for you but....always a but in there and I cant stand thinking about the two of them. I keep having this gut feeling that things will be normal between us again but she tells me all we can ever be is friends. I want to believe she doesnt mean that....I dont know what to feel or think anymore.........
PS its been 3 weeks since the break up and shes been with him for 2 weeks...is it possible she might come around with your experiences?
Re: Really Missing My Ex...Want To Talk JNA: HWTH wrote: "I feel kinda betrayed because she told me she would wait for me but now this ?"
Never listen to what they say...
Watch what they do...
Actions speak louder than words my friend
HWTH wrote: "Is there anything I can possibly do to get her to realize that Ive realy changed which I have."
At this point you can contact her once and explain to her all of the changes you have made but after that you have to "withdrawal" from her...
People want what they cannot have
If she "feels" she cannot have you then she may come back...
It does two things
Gives you time to do what you need too...
Then gives her time to "miss" you
While "he" screws things up... :)
You cannot change the past
But you can change what your future will be...
Start now
Stay Strong
JNA
Re: Really Missing My Ex...Want To Talk highwaytohell: Well Ive already tried asking her to take me back but she said shes happy so I guess I should ignore her for a little while ? Or should I still stay in contact but just keep it very minimul?
Re: Really Missing My Ex...Want To Talk JNA: "Withdrawal" and do your own thing...
If you see her appear to be happy
Do not respond to her right away if she calls you...
He will screw up
Men do these things...
Get the V-Mail and talk to her then
But wait a time to call her...
As far as the rest
Talk to other women while this is all going on...
You may find you don't really want her at all
It is just the "Infatuation" we have with someone sometimes...
IMO
JNA
Re: Really Missing My Ex...Want To Talk highwaytohell: You know what your right and that really helped me alot. He will def screw up and I need some more time to get things right with myself anyway. Itll workout great Im sure. Thanks
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