Re: My story vdc_1975: One more thing Alex, I'd start searching for some answers. Call his CC company to see if he has used his card and where. If they give you the info. Look at past cell phone bills. I'd start protecting yourself. Any money you guys have saved, pull it out now. You need to have it for you and your children. Protect youself, you and your kids deserve it.
Re: My story Alex04007: I can't get to the cell phone bills,he took them too.He has no credit cards and has no use for them.That is a problem.I do plan on taking the money we saved out of the house.My husband and I have seperate bank accounts.I bought a fireproof safe a year ago,put it in there and it will go to the bank this afternoon,about $10,000.00 in cash.Luckily,he does not know where the safe is.He trusted me with the money.I am looking into hiring a private investigator to find out where he is and will be contacting his family to find out where he is.I know my husband is going to be mad,I sold the 1999 Chevy Camaro he loved so much to my friend Josh recently and the title was in my name.The title had to be put in my name because he has bad credit after get 2 cars repoed because of not paying the loans he made for them two cars and I paid for the car.There is another vehicle,a 1993 Dodge 1/2 ton 4x4 pick up truck which the title is also in my name and can't find that vehicle.My husband knows where it is.I am still talking to my lawyer and he told me to call him for legal advice
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I can't get to the cell phone bills,he took them too.He has no credit cards and has no use for them.That is a problem.I do plan on taking the money we saved out of the house.My husband and I have seperate bank accounts.I bought a fireproof safe a year ago,put it in there and it will go to the bank this afternoon,about $10,000.00 in cash.Luckily,he does not know where the safe is.He trusted me with the money.I am looking into hiring a private investigator to find out where he is and will be contacting his family to find out where he is.I know my husband is going to be mad,I sold the 1999 Chevy Camaro he loved so much to my friend Josh recently and the title was in my name.The title had to be put in my name because he has bad credit after get 2 cars repoed because of not paying the loans he made for them two cars and I paid for the car.There is another vehicle,a 1993 Dodge 1/2 ton 4x4 pick up truck which the title is also in my name and can't find that vehicle.My husband knows where it is.I am still talking to my lawyer and he told me to call him for legal advice
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Good to hear you that you are not going to strapped or shafted by your husband abandoning you and your kids. While you are hurting so much, I am proud of you that you are keeping it together so well.
Re: My story Alex04007: I also have support from my longtime friends Melanie,Jackie,Ricki and Kelsey.They heard about my husband leaving and told me they are going by my side even if I ever find my husdand to find out why he left me
