Re: Where's The Karma Peaceandquiet: I actually like that definition of Karma.. wizzer. Now I'll let you get back to Bubba
Re: Where's The Karma wizer_now: [quote author=PQ (Kermie) link=topic=43059.msg493999#msg493999 date=1175791605">
I actually like that definition of Karma.. wizzer. Now I'll let you get back to Bubba
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He and I broke it off yesterday. He was too much man for me. Besides, I'm up for parole in less than a month.
Re: Where's The Karma Peaceandquiet: Shame you too looked so cute together.. well don't worry I'm sure Karma will catch up with him too
Re: Where's The Karma trapped: Life is not a JT song. WHat goes around does not always come back around. Sorry peeps. Bad things happen to good people all the time.
Gentle souls get killed in vicious manners.
Re: Where's The Karma lgv: I am unsure about Karma. As an idea I think it gives us a sense of comfort hoping that eventually they will have to suffer the consequences of their behaviour.
But Percy is so right, people do not change. I sometimes unwillingly get into this cycle of thinking that my husband's life is so much better than mine, and the triggers are just little details. The other day I was talking to his friend who happens to have some stuff in my storage and since I will be moving out of my apartment I needed him to find another place to put his things. This responsibility should be my husband's, but yet again, I am left dealing with everything. Well, the friend said "Oh, your husband said he could put my stuff in his house" and that was it, that was the trigger. I immediately imagined him in a beautiful house, with a car, a happy relationship, everything clean and in order and him being successful. I started feeling like crap until I realised that it was not true, that my husband will never change, he will always be lazy, mediocre and unmotivated, that he will never have enough to buy and own a house, I mean, he has not even been able to finish school. So, it is quite unlikely that all of a sudden he will change.
I think we, people that are left, seek some sort of retribution, because we have been taught that to every action there is a reaction, and to every bad action a punishment. There is no catharsis, even the law makes it nice and simple to get a divorce, not even a slap on the wrist for destroying a marriage, and that is why it is so hard to give up the idea of karma.
The best thing to do, but the hardest, is to let go, accept the fact that they may or may never feel remorse or pain, and that it is very possible that if they do we might never see it. :-\
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