Re: Where's The Karma td: I have not seen it either... He basically was able to walk away, forget he had a family and moved on with a new life... I got to pick up the mess he left behind. I am at the point now where I really could care less if karma gets him or not, although it would be nice. I am just focused on my life now.
Re: Where's The Karma flipflopnomore: [quote author=BDAD link=topic=43059.msg493910#msg493910 date=1175785209">
So be honest, those of you who were cheated on/left, did you ex's get the payback or is evrything smooth-sailing for them and you are still not reaping the rewards for taking the high-road, etc..?
I want to see where this what goes around comes around thing is at. I certainly have not seen it.
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Not sure if I believe in Karma or not. But I know life is not easier for my ex at all. He is living in hell. He looks like hell, he's broke, his kids are not with him much, and he is self medicating even more to numb his pain. He goes out all the time and makes a public a** of himself. He says he is miserable and regrets everything.
There is rewards for taking the high road and handling things as best as you can. I know I can walk away from this marriage knowing I did my best to fix it and make it work.
Do I feel bad for him? Sometimes. But realize that these were all of his own choices.
Re: Where's The Karma wizer_now: There's no such thing as Karma...if you think of it as some type of supernatural force that points it's finger at the bad guy and says now it's your turn...and the lightning bolt shoots out of the godly finger and causes all this bad shit to happen.
Now if you think of Karma as being the logical progression of events...the cheating spouse has no ethics or morals, no sense of responsibility, maybe even no idea of right or wrong...and eventually their poor judgement and bad decisions catch up with them at some point, and they end up paying the ultimate price...failed relationships, financial losses, emotional problems, etc.
Now that's a definition of Karma that I can live with.
Re: Where's The Karma Percy123: Smells like crap, tastes like crap, probably is crap....
I think your defintion of it Wzer is spot on....Call it what you want but the results are the same. I agree it is not a cosmic force but the same variables that led to your problems in a relationship will repeatt again.
Being here and trying to be more sensitive and self aware helps you avoid repeating the cycle. Karma comes in whatever the defintion to those wh orepeat these destructive patterns by not addrerssing their own faults.
If you think that defines your ex, then it will come to them...I re-iterate, people don't change. If they were bad before and not just a bad fit, it is inevitable that they will repeat.
Re: Where's The Karma ace1234: I think the whole Karma thing is real. Sooner or later it comes around.
I think that some don't believe it's true because it doesn't happen fast enough for our likings. Usually doesn't happen when we are looking for it to happen.
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