Re: cheating and inadequacy/betrayal just_me_detroit: It was hard. She chose a woman over me! How bad must I have been?
I got over it by finding out that woman are attracted to me. Then I found out that other woman do enjoy me intimately. Now I have no feelings of inadequacy.
Re: cheating and inadequacy/betrayal ace1234: It is betrayal.
I would say I feel inadequate. I try not to think about it as much as I was.
One person's garbage is another's gold.
Re: cheating and inadequacy/betrayal darkrose: I don't feel inadequate because my stbxw chose to cheat on me. Betrayed, angry..maybe.. but not inadequate.
Re: cheating and inadequacy/betrayal Lumpy: I think with time the sense of inadequacy fades. You can rebuild your sense of self-esteem. The betrayal part tends to linger a bit longer I'd say.
Re: cheating and inadequacy/betrayal superwife: Inadequate? Yeah, maybe, a bit, at first. But I have come to realize it is more of his inadequacies.
Betrayed?? F yeah!!!
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