Re: guess he thinks i am a fool.... JNA: flip wrote: " They hide all of thier issues and when you start to see what is really happening they run like hell to the next victim."
Yes they do...
Someone told me a time ago the definition of "Insanity"
"Is doing something over and over again expecting a different result"...
The "problem" is in the process of them finding this out they drive "us" about Nuts
So our friends are wondering Whats Up Man...
What friends need to realize is when "someone" changes A Lot
They need to look at "what" has changed...
No one is down...depressed or angry for no reason
guess he thinks i am a fool.... JackieFL: yeah....i know he is seeing someone....i am not stupid. He is showing all the signs....even starting to disregard his daughter.....he sends me an email or calls to check on her but does she know that? no, she is 7 months old.....i really thought he was more of a man than this.
I am still extremely hurt, but I think some of the anger may be coming now that I know (in my heart) that he is with someone else..........
Re: guess he thinks i am a fool.... JNA: I knew my ex was with someone else...
She was someone that was a Master Manipulator they call them
She "taught" me "all" the signs I talk to people about here when things are ending...
She Schooled me per se in the way of Women that are Players as opposed to the male side of the fence
I guess what I am getting at is you are not a "fool"...
We just were "fooled"...
Into believing someone was the person they are not
They can fool some for a time but in the end they get found out...
You see that is the "most" painful thing about it is when this person you thought was "so" Sincere...Honest and Loving turns out to be a Rat
That's what hurts the most...
I know
Then the Distortion Campaign starts and they start destroying you with you friends next... ;)
Stay Strong
JNA
Re: guess he thinks i am a fool.... JackieFL: thank you, i am trying to stay strong and find some peace of mind.....it's extremely difficult though....trying to keep the thoughts of him, what he is doing.....etc from consuming me.
Re: guess he thinks i am a fool.... JNA: [quote author=JackieFL link=topic=43523.msg501853#msg501853 date=1176863864">
thank you, i am trying to stay strong and find some peace of mind.....it's extremely difficult though....trying to keep the thoughts of him, what he is doing.....etc from consuming me.
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I had this problem as most have here...
When I thought of her I would quickly try to re-direct my thoughts to something else
In the end I found a project to get into that helped give me time to heal and forget about her...
One other thing
Some relationships are "so" intense that others are not going to understand a breakup with someone that is UM Personality Disordered...
That sounds like your Sweetie
IMO
I know...
I had one just like him cept she was a girl
LOL
JNA
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