Re: SOOO need to vent........ wizer_now: [quote author=JackieFL link=topic=43556.msg502524#msg502524 date=1176943371"> he kinda smirked and say yeah i guess, since that is what I am doing[/quote">
That's not only cruel and more than a little bit f*cked up...it's downright strange. For a cheating spouse to not only admit it, but to flaunt it and throw it back in your face?
The guy has issues...and more than the usual ones, no doubt about that. You will gain absolutely nothing by asking him questions, and looking for reasoning or compassion in anything he does.
You are going to have to take a hard stance going forward, and fight the better battle, because that's exactly what it is. Don't ever fool yourself into thinking that there is a chance, or that this guy is going ever consider your needs at all.
Re: SOOO need to vent........ JackieFL: Thanks ladies.....it just kills me that he is even capable of hurting me like this.....BIG STUPID JERK........GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
SOOO need to vent........ JackieFL: He admitted today that he is with this OW......How stupid and selfish.....anyway....After he brought our daughter home...I asked him...so you really are ok with yourself for being married and having an affair...he kinda smirked and say yeah i guess, since that is what I am doing......FN AHOLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just wanted to hit something.....
I am starting to realize maybe I really am not meant to be with him....he is weak....I am a strong person.....I need a strong man.....F HIM....
Re: SOOO need to vent........ td: Jackie... I am really sorry that you are going throug this right now. I have been there and it is the worst feeling in the world to know that your husband who is supposed to be your best friend could do this to you. This guy is a total loser and the piece of crap he is with is no better. Keep your head up high and know that you will be the one who comes out of this ahead. You are way to good for him. (((hugs)))
