Re:Should I pay Kinney26: I still have my stbx on my car insurance, but I make her pay her share. If she wants her independence, give it to her. If you pay that means she is still dependent on you. She asked for it.
Re:Should I pay seth: I love the cliches women use when they leave you. They want their "independence" to "have their own space" because they're "co-dependent" and you're "holding them back" and they "need to grow."
My ex told me that I didn't "love myself." She really swallows up new age psychology and goes to therapy at least once a week and is on multiple antidepressants. I remember last year that she got her palm read at a street fair--the woman told her she was "haaaaving troooouble with looooove...."
On the way home, we stopped to buy her some aromatherapy candles and then later I went online to read her detailed monthly horoscope she subscribes to. When she left, she told me she was going to become a yoga instructor.
Why me? I dream about marrying a woman who is a marine biologist or engineer or something. I'll ask her, "Do you believe in astrology?" She'll give me a blank look like I'm crazy.... 8)
Re:Should I pay sadinct: I, too, vote to let her prove her independance by making her pay her own way. She has made a decision, and you have respected it, or at least complied wih it. It's time for her to accept the consequences of her actions!
Stay Strong!
Seth- I really get a lot from your posts... even when they're not to me. thanks!
Doug
Re:Should I pay seth: no
Re:Should I pay seth: do not pay. watch your own bottom line. my ex sure did. i supported her through grad. school while i worked full-time and borrowed money to get myself through grad. school. then she left.
do not pay a dime more than you have to. be "selfish."
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