Re:Hurricanes heading for my ex...how do I worry? galil: ;D
Re:Hurricanes heading for my ex...how do I worry? picadilly: Hey Sorrow, you worrying over his is commendable & just shows how caring a person you are. I don't understand why he would be mad at you for your concern but then, some people are just wierd that way I guess.
Hang in there, use the Vent board or the Unsent letters board to let it out. If he truly doesn't care about your letters, there is not point in sending him any.
Be well
Re:Hurricanes heading for my ex...how do I worry? Sorrow: Hello all,
Thanks for the responses and advice everyone...and there is an update for this whole scenario. My ex did receive my two E-mails...the first one I sent saying that I worried for him during this hurricane, then the second I sent him to DISREGARD that E-mail, stating that I shouldn't have bothered him, and it was a mistake.
Now, I'm stuck with a problem. He thinks I'm giving him another chance for me to come back to him.
He wrote me a reply saying, "OH I see you are STILL hot for me...thats good to know..."
I guess he didn't DISREGARD that e-mail, and instead of being angry at me, like you guys thought, he was actually happy I was worried about him...now he probably thinks I still may come back to him...he got the wrong impression.
Now what do I do....he didn't say he wanted a reply, but I know he's expecting one. What do I tell him? I don't want to be harsh...just because Im worried about him over a hurricane doesn't mean I want to remarry him, but he sees it as a CHANCE...this is so damn fustrating.
What do I tell him? What do I say without sounding so cruel....somebody, help me again....*sigh*
-Sorrow
Re:Hurricanes heading for my ex...how do I worry? whathef?: Stop playing games with him and let it go.
He's a big boy and you being "worried" is an excuse for contact.
"and instead of being angry at me, like you guys thought, he was actually happy I was worried about him..."
Nobody said he'd be angry.
You said in your original post "my ex I think will just be so pissed off at me writing him, that he will send me a nasty e-mail telling me to "piss off.."
If you enjoy the conflict, find other reasons for contact.
If you don't want him back, leave him alone.
People have learned to weather storms pretty good down there.
Figure out what YOU really want.
Re:Hurricanes heading for my ex...how do I worry? Sorrow: umm I wrote that wrong...
I didn't mean to say it like that, you guys never said he would be angry, but HAPPY he would hear from me. I know I was the one who said hed be mad..I know that, I wrote that wrong.
Im not playing games. I never have with him. He is the game player. I was just worried, and its hard to control the emotions you feel inside.
Please dont call me a game player. He was the one who used me like a yo yo and wanted the divorce in the first place...going back to him would only mean another divorce.
The only reason why I e-mailed him, which was a mistake, was becuase of a HURRICANE...read my text...HURRICANE. can you blame me for being worried? other than the hurricanes, I never emailed him...I dont play games.
Sorrow
P.S this is what I meant to say:
"and instead of being angry at me, it was like how you guys thought, that he was actually happy I was worried about him..."
sound better? *sigh* ahh forget it.
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