Re:Big Question for the Guys jason_stl: HA! Neither have I, so we at least share that in common.
Don't think of it as though you are not good for them. Think of it more as the numbers game - the more times you meet men that you are attracted to, the better the probability that you will hit a home run. I think it all comes down to the scarcity mentality after dating.
Too many of us feel that we need to find someone great, special, perfect and loving right away or we are going to become old and sour. Something along the lines of our shelf life is expiring soon and we need to have a fire sale or go out of business. You have a ton of time left and you should use this experience to your advantage.
Why didn't you finish your grad work, btw?
Re:Big Question for the Guys LSFool: I am finishing it it. I have one more year left as a full-time grad student. So I am poor, which also does not put me at the top of the desired dating list.
Re:Big Question for the Guys LSFool: Jason,
Thank you.
I agree with you.
I have adopted the "spare and a pair" dating strategy, so I actually have a date on Wednesday with a different man. I am starting to get burned out on dating though. I almost feel like I won't have the energy to make it through the evening.
Re:Big Question for the Guys skavachi: If you can't make it through the evening, just say, "Ineed to get into bed." Now, if his eyes light up and he starts taking off his clothes, you know not to keep him. If he says he'll take you home so you can sleep, he deserves a second date.
Dating does seem a bit tiring at times, but even if things don't work out, you still could have a really good friendship with someone. This situation, no matter how it seems, is a postivie one. At least he didn't say...uh...yeah, I'll...um, call you later. Yeah... ;D You are a nice caring individual. you will find your someone that makes you happy. Chemistry is a weird thing. Hmmm...idea for a thread?
Re:Big Question for the Guys in_search_of: This pair and a spare deal kills me, where are you ladies finding these guys to keep around. I can't even find one decent guy to date, let alone one and a spare!
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