Custody hearing is today LettinGo: We were in agreement on everything until last night, when he decides to threaten me a little about taking back the extra $50 he gives me in child support, asking the judge if his kids are allowed to sleepover his home (w/OW, when they get it) even though we agreed that they wouldn't meet her for six months, etc. etc. My oldest son is not his biological son, but I have NEVER threatened that he wasn't going to see him , even though he is not in any of our custody/visitation papers. I wouldn't do that because that would only be hurting my son, but what does he feel the need to threaten me with things like child support, visitation and child care? He wants to play dirty.
He said a few mean things, which leaves me wondering what the hell happened to him. Even if he fell out of love with me, okay, why is it that he has cut off all family and friends in the midst of what he has done? Why has he changed SO DRASTICALLY? He never used to treat anyone this way, now it is like the norm for him.
Anyway, whatever ... I am just not looking forward to spending the afternoon with him. He tries to justify all his actions with ridiculous reasons (ex.: he bought the OW's kids toys and lied to me about it, but it is MY fault because if I hadn't looked at the receipt I never would have known. He actually SAID that to me! LMAO!!)
He also said that I wouldn't be where I was today if it weren't for him. Hmmm ... last time I checked, I went to school BEFORE I met him, he did not put me through school. I went and got my own job, and I worked my butt off to get my promotions. What the hell is he talking about?
Anyway, I know this post is jumping around a lot and makes no sense. I guess I am a little nervous about this afternoon ... or just life, in general. He is definitely not someone that I can depend on. Or rather, not someone that my kids can depend on.
Re:Custody hearing is today LettinGo: Well, in case anyone was interested ...
Court went fine. He agreed to everything we originally decided, did not challenge anything, etc. The judge loved the Child Care/Custody Plan that I had typed up - lol! She kept saying how wonderful it was and she never saw anything like it, and that I should go into business. ;D
The downside of the day was that Stbx told me that he actually told his mother I didn't like visiting her. I was livid. It isn't that I don't like visiting her, it's that I don't like the two hour drive with infant twins (at the time). I told my SIL this tonight and she told me she already knew he was lying anyway.
Kelly
Re:Custody hearing is today Shanna: It is great to heaar things went so well. Thank goodness for little gifts. Sorry I missed you thread earlier :(
Re:Custody hearing is today LettinGo: Thanks guys!
Frid, I sent you a PM about the plan if you are interested ... Kelly
Re:Custody hearing is today betteroffalso: Hey LG, Iam glad it went so well for you! Would you mind sharing that plan with me also? Thanks so much!
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