to bob (FIL) Shanna: Bob, I know your first wife cheated on you and you still are angry about it, but tellling my parents what to do isn't the right thing. They want him to feel welcome here to mkae things easier on the kids and to make it easier finacially for h im to come visit them. I don't have a problem with my parents for this a appreciate their ability to be the peacekeepers. They will not let him bring another woman here. Ryan and Ryan alone is allowed to come here to stay so he can see his kids. I honestly don't believe he would even try that. HE and I even discussed that he had a girlfriend at xmas that she isn't allowed to meet the kids and that if he has to bring her she must stay away from me, my house, my kids, and my parents house. If he brings her he will be at a hotel, not here. Why must you keep calling my parents and upsetting them. Just bc they have never been thru a divorce of their own doesn't make them stupid. They have built a wonderful relationship with my XBIL (sister's firsst husband). He feels welcome to come here and have dinner or call if he needs advice on any matters in life. They want Ryan to feel welcome to come here to see the kids and be a happy in between place if I cannot have him at my house. I apprectiate your concern, but we are adults and can handle things down here with out your help.
We love you,
Shanna
