Re:bipolar wife wants a divorce jojo319: To make things worse, she wants to co-exist in our house together. Both of our names are on the house, and I don't want to move out and pay bills at a house that I'm not living in. Neither of us can afford the house payment by ourselves. Her big excuse is "I'm selfish and I know it, I don't want to hurt you anymore". Man, I'm starting to get pi*sed! Should I stay in the house with her? Any advice on this one?
Re:bipolar wife wants a divorce MadorSad: JoJo
I've stayed in the house with my W she has no other problems than me we even do things together. I try to give her room it is hard but we have good and bad days. Try and see what happens it might work out and it is worth the try. Even if you can not work it out it might help in the long run
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Re:bipolar wife wants a divorce jojo319: How do you deal with her comings and goings? It's been 2 days and she already shuts the bedroom door when she's changing.
Re:bipolar wife wants a divorce seth: Isn't that the worst when they leave but don't actually leave and then you catch them half-dressed and they act like you're a stranger that just broke into the house?
After all of the intimacy that comes w/ years together, the false modesty is a bit insulting....
Yeah, if this is a person who wants to stay w/ you but it's just a question of you putting up with and supporting her through her illness, then I'd stay. But it sounds like she is the one who's leaving you so you should prepare yourself.... and consider yourself well off is she does leave you.
I think my ex might have had bipolar I but I'm no quack.... Sorry, don't have a master's in some B.S. soft science like "social work."
Re:bipolar wife wants a divorce Raiderette: Hi. I can somewhat relate! My husband wanted a divorce last year and we went though with it, I felt I had no choice! Then when I loed away, 3 weeks later came the most heart wrenching letters and we reconcilled. We remarried and now, a year later, he wants a divoc\rce again. hen he was so in love with me, cant imagine life without me, 10 minutes later he tells me he wants a divorce, packed all of my belongings and moved me to his parents home in another state. I did tell him to just bring my things here, as I am safe. I cant stay where I am not wanted is my mind set. He does this all with a big happy smile, rationalizing to himself. I am so sad and hurt I cant even believe it. he is bi polar yet wont take meds and smokes pot at times, or drinks, and he is great. Then he gets in a mood and I feel like WHO IS THIS PERSON! I married him both times as I feel he is my soul mate, I am so sad and confused! How can he tell me he loves me so much and yet turn around and put me out and go on to divorce. Not once but 2 times now. Thanks for listening! Heather my email is Raideritis@hotmail.com
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