stalled..... Druid13: I stalled on a date idea I had. Aksed this person out to a football game. She said yes....we were going to follow up on plans to when the game started etc....I did not follow up. She is divorcing . I am divorced. I feel like I stalled...possibly out of fear? This is crazy. I feel like I am a teenager....I am going to try to mend things but right now I feel stupid for having stalled on this whole thing....my divorce has sapped my self confidence...which never was very good I think.
Re:stalled..... LSFool: Ditto.
Also, if you are interested in her, tell her this when you explain why you stalled.
It's like job interviews. At the end, you should always say that you want the job. This way, the company knows that they are not wasting their time.
Re:stalled..... marfanoidus: Druid, it serves no point to wonder why you stalled. You need to lay down in a quiet place and reflect and analyze your feelings and actions so you determine exactly why you 'stalled'.
And you better apologize to her. If you think your confidence is still shaky, try being invited to something and having it yanked away for NO REASON. :-\
How rude ;)
good luck to you,
walt
Re:stalled..... Druid13: Wait it wasn't quite as you said. I did try to talk to her the following day but she was occupied....at the time ( you had to be there I guess) I felt a little..."blown off"...and in subsequent attempts I was not able to talk to her either. So after a few days I let things hang. I honestly was not trying to be rude at all ...and would feel bad if that was at all how it was interpreted. I am going to try to make up for it all however.
Re:stalled..... Druid13: I apoligised to her...I feel better about that...she was nice...said that's OK....going to see what happens from here on out. Still don't know who blew off who....in a way. Maybe I should just try to get to know her better first. But I feel better about saying something about it anyway.
